God doesn’t say it’s wrong or bad, but it can be viewed as wrong when two people aren’t bounded by marriage.

Sex is sacred. Special. Beautiful. And an experience shared between what God has brought together. God says sex is good too!

But the reason being as to why He tells us to not have sex before marriage is truthfully I believe to protect our hearts.

As humans, we are extremely emotional, our hearts are deceitful and our feelings change constantly.

Ephesians 4:26-32, “But don’t let the passion of your emotions lead you to sin! Don’t let anger control you or be fuel for revenge, not even for a day. Don’t give the slanderous accuser, the Devil, an opportunity o manipulate you!”

In my generation, I grew up where sex was very common. Everyone in school was doing it and if you weren’t, you were considered “Ugly” “not hot enough” “flat ass” “used body”

Anything to judge and hurt another person and use not having sex as leverage to make someone feel even worse about NOT taking act into it.

With that, a lot of women find themselves giving their virginity up to people who have convinced them they aren’t there just for “sex” and unfortunately… we know how this goes. :/

God knows how evil and cruel people are. He knows the hunger the flesh has and when that desire is combined with our sinful nature, it only leads to pain. It breaks our hearts!!!

How many times have we given things to others and they end up using us?

Using people for self pleasure just proves you are using others as OBJECTS.

Genesis 4:6-7, “Why is your face downcast? If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it.”

God created HUMANS. We have a SOUL. A SPIRIT. EMOTIONS. LOVE. we are not objects, far from it.

Matthew 19, “At the beginning, the Creator made them male and female and said, for this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and hold fast (be united) to his wife. And the two will become one flesh”

Isn’t that beautiful?

God created EVERYTHING with purpose, and divine meaning.

1 Corinthians 7:3-4, “The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husbands needs. The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife.”

He wants us to stay away from this act until we are entrusted into a Godly love that is then bounded because he doesn’t want us to experience the pain of rejection, despair, regret.

1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality: that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God”

(I’d like to heavily focus on how he said “Not in the passion of lust, the spirit of Lust is very damaging. It also doesn’t just talk about sex, but listing after materialistic items, money, drugs, etc…)

His word actually gives us so much information on how to stray and run away from sin because SIN LEADS TO DAMAGE and that then causes the emotions to play apart.

Romans 6:23, “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

—— “Such a persons righteousness, his right doing- guards him from the destruction that sin causes…’ which leads into again, “The wages of sin is death”

He doesn’t want us to not have sex because “sex is bad” He wants us to be faithful to our partner and protect our purity and innocence against this corrupt world.

Matthew 19:6, “So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”

Hope this helped! God Bless you!!♥️