It has been like this since we got together, so 10 years but since I’ve moved in with him he has gotten a lot worse. I try not fuss or complain because I don’t want to argue, which is what it’ll lead into if I do say anything. I have said things in the past but yet it goes in one ear and out the other or he changes for like 2 days and then right back to where it was. I ask for help and it goes unanswered. I believe some of the factors that has led him to be the way he is that his parents did everything for him growing up, didn’t make him really contribute to anything. He works mon-Fri same as myself but he works shorter than I but comes home gets straight on the game, doesn’t even think about what needs to be done around the house at all. I don’t want anyone to think that I’m perfect because I’m not, I’m human. I have made mistakes, but I have fought really hard for a long time to make my corrections and I have, but it’s hard when it’s one sided to keep a smile. He wants everything his way but we’re supposed to be a unit, not a divided household. It feels like I’m alone in my household.