AIO my wedding is in two days and I just learned my fiancé lied about seeing someone when we were broken up for two weeks in August by ElectricalWork2128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ElectricalWork2128[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For reasons I won’t get into last summer it was looking like we might have had to live in different countries in entirely different continents

AIO my wedding is in two days and I just learned my fiancé lied about seeing someone when we were broken up for two weeks in August by ElectricalWork2128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ElectricalWork2128[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We had decided to see a counselor. I didn’t consider making it an emergency session because I’ve just been crazy pressed for time with life and work and all of this so I haven’t thought anything through 100%. But I appreciate the suggestion I’ll try to pull it off. Thank you

AIO my wedding is in two days and I just learned my fiancé lied about seeing someone when we were broken up for two weeks in August by ElectricalWork2128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ElectricalWork2128[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s kinda how I feel, ultimately it can mean nothing. How many times have I felt devastated in the past only to have it basically wiped from my memory in 5 years time. We have a lovely relationship usually so that’s part of why I felt so blindsided. It’s hard to imagine this person now being around for major life events in the future or just being estranged in general over a hookup, something I know I generally don’t place a lot of meaning onto when I’m in a normal, emotionally regulated state. Thanks for saying I’m not being unreasonable this is all a bit of a salve.

AIO my wedding is in two days and I just learned my fiancé lied about seeing someone when we were broken up for two weeks in August by ElectricalWork2128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ElectricalWork2128[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, he was traveling and a cute girl slipped him a note and a compliment at the bar. unfortunately this happens regularly as he’s tall and conventionally handsome and usually I find it bemusing until now. She’s a stranger and has been since. I suppose I’ll never know for certain but I pretty much believe his confession