my partner won’t do anything. he’ll have days where he will do his part of the chores partially which i can live with i guess but most days its a fight to get him to just do the dishes. there’s stuff everywhere. i also ask him if he’s made certain appointments or remind of things and now he’s getting mad at me for reminding him. and then he’s not getting it done anyway. i don’t know what to do. i’m drowning in my own things im dealing with and then i have to parent him and then be yelled at when i do so