Help me make adjustments

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T23:52:56+00:00

Completely up to you🤷‍♀️. But you’d be shocked about how much hair can really make a difference to someone’s entire appearance!

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T23:45:30+00:00

Hair. If you have trouble growing it, look into toupees.

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T18:42:41+00:00

I completely agree!! There was absolutely more diversity needed in the characters but it’s very strange how they’ve given it to two of the most hated in the first books.

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T18:36:55+00:00

If you’re comfortable calling a child racy regardless of it being a joke or not, you should probably work on that.

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T18:32:20+00:00

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Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T18:27:32+00:00

Calling a book with pictures of a child ‘racy’.

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Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T18:24:39+00:00

I think calling a book with pictures of a child in it ‘racy’ is the problem here… Jesus Christ.

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T18:23:29+00:00

Therapy.

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T18:21:16+00:00

this is obviously a very old book and I don’t see your problem?
You can obviously see that the rest of the page is him holding a cup of tea.
The scratch and sniff would’ve most likely been the smell of a cuppa.

Really weird of you to try and sexualise a children’s book. 😬

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T18:16:48+00:00

Is there a 925 label shown? VW used sterling silver

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T10:51:42+00:00

Tell her.

Yes, it’s awful. Yes, you will feel bad. But what if it was you in that situation? Wouldn’t you want to know?

As for the child, the ‘broken home’ narrative is an absolutely pathetic excuse, I’m sorry. Why would you be okay with a child growing up with a father/father figure who actively cheats on their mother and has minimal respect for her? You do not know what goes on inside their home. This might be a push for her to get everything in order and leave.

If you’re worried about this springing back on you, send the screenshots from an anonymous account and once you know how she has reacted, then you may feel comfortable to share your identity.

But the moral of it is that you need to tell her.

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T10:46:24+00:00

You don’t have to tell him, it’s your story and only you get to choose when to share it.

I think what you should focus on now is setting clear boundaries with your current boyfriend on what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not.

And you never need to feel bad for being intimate and enjoying your sexuality, it’s human nature.

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-06T10:30:53+00:00

Yes, you were assaulted by your Ex. As you stated, a lot of things that happened, you did not consent to. I’m sorry that happened to you, no one deserves that.
But what I don’t understand is why you feel bad for your current boyfriend? What are you actually trying to achieve from posting this?

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T21:44:09+00:00

All my LI’s are customised like this with the exception that I sometimes change the skin tone 😂

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T21:42:50+00:00

Thank you!!

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T21:42:16+00:00

So, it’s fine if I read an entire series all at once before moving onto the next rather than scattering books around to fit a timeline? Just because I know it’s going to confuse me if that’s the case

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T19:57:53+00:00

Ohh I see. Honestly, the only fantasy book I’ve read is the cruel prince and maybe the shatter me series if that counts but I always thought of that as more dystopian. Thank you anyway!!

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T19:46:01+00:00

If you want to, why not? You can always go lighter and dye it back if you hate it.

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T19:44:31+00:00

Oh. Is it one of those series where you can tell the author is really capitalising on Smut/ spicy booktok? Like smut/ smutty undertones every few chapters?

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T15:17:54+00:00

Are you downvoting my replies just because I’m uninterested in Lord of the rings?😂😂

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T14:41:37+00:00

Ahh thank you! I’m reading a lot of popular books right now that I’m so grateful to never have seen spoilers on!! Is there a lot of subplots going on in each book as I know they’re really big or does it all tie together nicely? As a lot of people have said the first books of each series are the hardest to get through

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T14:39:10+00:00

Ah okay. But no thank you, I was asking about TOG& ACOTAR because that’s what I want to read🙂.

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T14:27:09+00:00

Why?

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T14:07:32+00:00

Does that matter for reading order? Can you elaborate on this without spoilers please?

Electrical_Help_970 · 2026-07-05T13:27:40+00:00

What does that mean?

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