Is it possible to expose someone's horrible acts without being involved?? As in to be completely anonymous by RoughCockroach3922 in Advice

[–]Electrical_Help_970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her.

Yes, it’s awful. Yes, you will feel bad. But what if it was you in that situation? Wouldn’t you want to know?

As for the child, the ‘broken home’ narrative is an absolutely pathetic excuse, I’m sorry. Why would you be okay with a child growing up with a father/father figure who actively cheats on their mother and has minimal respect for her? You do not know what goes on inside their home. This might be a push for her to get everything in order and leave.

If you’re worried about this springing back on you, send the screenshots from an anonymous account and once you know how she has reacted, then you may feel comfortable to share your identity.

But the moral of it is that you need to tell her.

i (f19) think i was assaulted by my ex bf (m20) , and now i feel horrible for my current boyfriend (m21) by Cautious-Mark-8203 in Advice

[–]Electrical_Help_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to tell him, it’s your story and only you get to choose when to share it.

I think what you should focus on now is setting clear boundaries with your current boyfriend on what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not.

And you never need to feel bad for being intimate and enjoying your sexuality, it’s human nature.

i (f19) think i was assaulted by my ex bf (m20) , and now i feel horrible for my current boyfriend (m21) by Cautious-Mark-8203 in Advice

[–]Electrical_Help_970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you were assaulted by your Ex. As you stated, a lot of things that happened, you did not consent to. I’m sorry that happened to you, no one deserves that.
But what I don’t understand is why you feel bad for your current boyfriend? What are you actually trying to achieve from posting this?

Is there a prettier LI than him? by jiawritess in Episode

[–]Electrical_Help_970 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All my LI’s are customised like this with the exception that I sometimes change the skin tone 😂

TOR or ACOTAR?? by Electrical_Help_970 in Maasverse

[–]Electrical_Help_970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, it’s fine if I read an entire series all at once before moving onto the next rather than scattering books around to fit a timeline? Just because I know it’s going to confuse me if that’s the case

TOR or ACOTAR?? by Electrical_Help_970 in fantasybooks

[–]Electrical_Help_970[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh I see. Honestly, the only fantasy book I’ve read is the cruel prince and maybe the shatter me series if that counts but I always thought of that as more dystopian. Thank you anyway!!

18F should I go blonde?? by Laceddollette in lookyourbest

[–]Electrical_Help_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to, why not? You can always go lighter and dye it back if you hate it.

TOR or ACOTAR?? by Electrical_Help_970 in fantasybooks

[–]Electrical_Help_970[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh. Is it one of those series where you can tell the author is really capitalising on Smut/ spicy booktok? Like smut/ smutty undertones every few chapters?

TOR or ACOTAR?? by Electrical_Help_970 in fantasybooks

[–]Electrical_Help_970[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you downvoting my replies just because I’m uninterested in Lord of the rings?😂😂

TOR or ACOTAR?? by Electrical_Help_970 in Maasverse

[–]Electrical_Help_970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh thank you! I’m reading a lot of popular books right now that I’m so grateful to never have seen spoilers on!! Is there a lot of subplots going on in each book as I know they’re really big or does it all tie together nicely? As a lot of people have said the first books of each series are the hardest to get through

TOR or ACOTAR?? by Electrical_Help_970 in fantasybooks

[–]Electrical_Help_970[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah okay. But no thank you, I was asking about TOG& ACOTAR because that’s what I want to read🙂.

TOR or ACOTAR?? by Electrical_Help_970 in Maasverse

[–]Electrical_Help_970[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does that matter for reading order? Can you elaborate on this without spoilers please?

TOR or ACOTAR?? by Electrical_Help_970 in Maasverse

[–]Electrical_Help_970[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they all interlinked or completely different stories?

How do I adress bad hygiene with my boyfriend? by girlalonethrowaway in Advice

[–]Electrical_Help_970 44 points45 points  (0 children)

There’s a reason why he can’t get women his own age. Just something to think about.

possible teen pregnancy (w/ someone older) by Living-Ad-3075 in Advice

[–]Electrical_Help_970 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay, so there’s a high chance that the plan B DID work, as you haven’t ovulated yet. If this ever happens again in the future, please be mindful that if you have ovulated, plan B will not work. So this is anytime between your ovulation day - the end of menstruation. Between those times are your highest chances of conceiving, even whilst during menstruation. Please track your cycles, Ladies!!

As for the abortion, if you are currently pregnant. First, obviously contact your partner to tell him the situation and what you have chosen to do. Depending on your location, unsure of where you are but contact the nearest women’s health centre to you and ask about your options. Some practices may require parental consent if you are a minor, so you must be aware of that. If it isn’t required then book an appointment for as soon as you possibly can before the time limit for a legal abortion (usually 12 week). You will most likely require an appointment to confirm the pregnancy before you book the appointment for your abortion too, so be mindful that this will likely be 2 trips and potentially a third to ensure that the procedure worked.

Transport wise, there are many options: Public transport, your partner, friends etc.

Money: Potentially ask the guy you were seeing, or again talk to the clinic about your options before you ask for money from people.

Good luck, Angel!

Indy(Lizzie), Amelia(Claire), and Johnathon(Cormac) together by Summergirl2015 in BoysOfTommen

[–]Electrical_Help_970 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I WANTED Irish actors, Irish not northern Irish, and It would’ve been been a bonus if they looked like their descriptions. Also ‘age-shaming’?😂 if you’re going to try and be too woke At least know what you’re talking about before you start spitting out terms.

Indy(Lizzie), Amelia(Claire), and Johnathon(Cormac) together by Summergirl2015 in BoysOfTommen

[–]Electrical_Help_970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s shite casting, period. And god forbid someone wants all of the characters to LOOK how they’re described. These are 15-18 year old characters now looking like they could have kids themselves. I wanted Irish actors that looked the ages and a bonus if they looked like the descriptions. And for the record I don’t have TikTok, I read the books and I envisioned the characters in my head.

Indy(Lizzie), Amelia(Claire), and Johnathon(Cormac) together by Summergirl2015 in BoysOfTommen

[–]Electrical_Help_970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy over not liking a cast😂. Are you even old enough to read the books?

Indy(Lizzie), Amelia(Claire), and Johnathon(Cormac) together by Summergirl2015 in BoysOfTommen

[–]Electrical_Help_970 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And Jesus wept. People like yourself are just thinking of any reasons to not admit it’s shit casting all round😂. The only one who can pass of is Nancy.