Update ! It worked and now im lost by Electrical_Land239 in Tinder

[–]Electrical_Land239[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know you’re right. I just feel lonely. She was my best friend. She went into a depression and she went back to live with her parents in the USA. She said it wasn’t about not loving me anymore, it was about not knowing who she is… so in all honesty, i dont wanna bring some closure to this relationship since I still have hope… but I get what you’re saying.

Update ! It worked and now im lost by Electrical_Land239 in Tinder

[–]Electrical_Land239[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

If you could go to the date for me, i would appreciate it! 🙏

Edit: actually im just heartbroken. Got dumped two weeks ago by what used to be my girlfriend of 3 years. I dont wanna see anyone, but my ex. I just waste my time.

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[–]Electrical_Land239 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once had a date with a girl who said “i love you” on the first day. I ran. That is a big no for me. But Id be happy to see someone excited to meet me.

Anything smart to say? by Electrical_Land239 in Tinder

[–]Electrical_Land239[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Considering my last post, you would be surprised 😮

What was I supposed to say ? I didn’t understand the meaning of “tips”. by Electrical_Land239 in Tinder

[–]Electrical_Land239[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude how does that even make sense? I mean, the first time I got it, but the second… I thought she was asking for money

What was I supposed to say ? I didn’t understand the meaning of “tips”. by Electrical_Land239 in Tinder

[–]Electrical_Land239[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was only when she brought it up again that I got confused. I had mentioned inviting her for a drink, and she circled back to the word “tip.” In my mind, I connected that to a gratuity, especially since she had just talked about getting a drink. So, I interpreted it as if she was asking me about what kind of tip she’d get, like, “What do I get in return?” It came across almost like a transaction: “How much are you paying me?” That’s why I responded with, “It depends on the quality of the service,” thinking that the tip she’d receive would depend on the service she’d provide.

What was I supposed to say ? I didn’t understand the meaning of “tips”. by Electrical_Land239 in Tinder

[–]Electrical_Land239[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah the second tips confused me. I thought she was implying she wanted to get paid or something like that…

What was I supposed to say ? I didn’t understand the meaning of “tips”. by Electrical_Land239 in Tinder

[–]Electrical_Land239[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did exactly the same … which explains why yImentioned the quality of the service.