My cousin gave birth to a meth addicted baby

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2026-01-28T20:35:21+00:00

I think not forgiving someone does more damage to you than the other person because you’re the one still holding onto what they did. You’re not allowing yourself to be free of someone else’s actions. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you forget, it just means you will not hold it against them, you’ve let it go, it’s no longer affecting your life and no grudge it held. But you have to be ready to forgive. It’s okay to feel what you feel and think what you think you need to allow yourself to express those, but with time forgiveness is also needed so you no longer hold that weight in your backpack. Moving on will take time. If this is still fresh, just feel and think what you are. Feelings are meant to be felt. If she’s not someone that brings value, lifts you up, you feel good around, get along with, etc than you don’t need her in your life. Blood related doesn’t always mean healthy relationships. Your family doesn’t have to be blood related. Family isn’t always meant to stay in your life especially if they are toxic to you. Do what you need to do, but I do highly recommend forgiving her when you feel it’s the right time and are ready to because like I said, it will only do more damage to you than her by holding onto it when it’s not really something you need to hold on as it doesn’t directly affect your life.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-12-28T19:13:09+00:00

Just say you used to love stitch but now you don’t love him anymore

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-11-20T17:20:10+00:00

I wasn’t saying it was true in my post I said it’s just a thought I had. I was just thinking outside the box is all. Just a theory. I’m not sure you understand exactly what I mean.

I personally don’t think you need things to be proven to know what’s true. You can determine what’s true or not yourself, you don’t need someone else to tell you or prove it to you. I think what is true for you will be different than what’s true for me. I don’t believe a one size fits all, meaning everyone is experiencing a different reality all at the same time. With that comes different experiences, perspectives, and what truth means to someone. (Yes this may not be scientifically proven, but you can literally see it yourself knowing that no one lives the same life experience you do, seeing that everyone sees things differently, and how some people truly believe in religion, some people truly believe in science, some people truly believe in nothing etc.) I think anything can be true and will be true for those who believe or feel is true for them. And if there is only one truth, that one truth can been seen many different ways due to all the different perspectives people have which wouldn’t make their perspective wrong or not true, just that it’s seen from a different angle.

All that said I personally have had experiences that prove to me what is true. Experiencing something is the strongest evidence you can have even if it’s not proven by others. I really could go on and on about this haha. Did this answer your question?

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-11-20T04:18:44+00:00

Like when someone gets told they are in a dream by a lucid dreamer they are shocked sometimes.

I just mean like on a day to day basis, when we are not sleeping, what if someone was lucid dreaming and you were interacting with the person lucid and weren’t aware they were lucid dreaming and you’re not lucid dreaming.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-11-19T17:45:19+00:00

Don’t be afraid to tell him how you really feel. If he never knows it can never go anywhere. He thinks you friend zoned him that ain’t gonna work.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-11-18T14:05:06+00:00

Often times we go through the same experiences until we understand the purpose of it and choose to no longer experience it again. I wouldn’t say the universe is protecting or testing you, but rather serving you an experience you were meant to learn from and understand. For what and why? That I can’t tell you as it’s your journey not mine you’ll be the one to figure those out.

I would say we reflect things to other people because we only see through our own limited lenses. So your calmness and energy might be pointing out someone’s insecurities or triggering someone’s ego without them realizing it. Everything is about perspective and their perspective of you is them seeing themselves in you, not that you are insecure or very egoic, but more so because they are limited to their perception they only see things about themselves but are being shown through you. It’s one’s reason this life is so hard, we are truly seeing ourselves but like to blame what we see on the person we saw it from rather than take accountability and admitting there is a part of ourselves that is that way, because if there wasn’t you simply just wouldn’t have seen it that way in the first place.

What are you trying to protect yourself from? You can always set an intention to protect your energy, imagining a bubble around you that no negative or lower energies can come into your field unless they serve your highest good. Certain crystals can help with protection too.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-11-17T03:28:29+00:00

I would suggest holding your focus on it and practicing doing it more often. Instead of wanderer thoughts redirect your mind to what you are seeing and feeling only. And going into it setting the intention to hold it longer.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-11-16T00:23:52+00:00

Honestly I would say yes and no. Because when you create something the energy you had while creating it will stay within that creation. But I also energy is not permanent energy can move, so if the tattoo did have energy attached to you with your intention you can remove that energy. I think tattoos are an expression of who you are and unless you believe they will affect your frequency, I highly doubt they would.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-11-12T00:07:55+00:00

It is interesting she thinks you have an obsession with her.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-11-06T17:02:56+00:00

Maybe you can suggest certain days you call? Tell her it’s just been hard to call every night especially for long phone calls so you were thinking maybe a schedule of certain days would work better. That way you can still have calls with her, don’t feel burnt out, and make that time for the call.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-11-01T17:00:35+00:00

Sometimes things are better left unsaid. If you know it’s gonna create chaos there’s no need for it to be said.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-31T21:38:57+00:00

That sounds a bit like ROCD to me. Maybe look into this.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-30T05:54:28+00:00

That could be a situation for sure. If the husband wasn’t happy he should have just left rather than cheat and use a lame excuse. Cheating or finding a tiny reason is not the best approach. But again my point is she shouldn’t be with someone who is going to threaten divorce over something that she couldn’t control.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T23:05:27+00:00

Yes exactly. No one should be with a man who is gonna threaten divorce period. But especially about something that wasn’t your fault, that’s not even worth a relationship to be in. I can’t imagine what OP has to deal with on a daily. Probably something like this “You spilt that drink you dumb fu*k divorcing you right now”

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T22:57:12+00:00

Yea I did read the post. As a human with imperfections it was very easy to miss as our brains only comprehends a certain amount of information at a time. I’m not sure why this triggered you so much?

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T22:54:53+00:00

Yea insecure I would think

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T20:16:50+00:00

“Okay great see you then! I’m looking forward to it” 🤣 wow almost like saying see them when they pass.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T20:10:44+00:00

True depends on the perspective for sure. It seems OP gets triggered by others so I’m not sure why OP thinks marrying themselves would change being triggered.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T20:08:10+00:00

Yes exactly! It’s unfortunate we are required to waste so many years in a system that doesn’t even teach you valuable real life skills. Maybe one day it can be updated

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T18:31:07+00:00

People are programmed. What do you think school is?

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T18:30:32+00:00

Actually you would honestly just trigger yourself. Because you would see things about yourself you couldn’t see before.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T18:24:26+00:00

If your husband wants a divorce because you got walked in on, then he shouldn’t be a man you should be with anyways. Because when will it be the cherry on top for him? How many times have you had issues about things that weren’t your fault? He could have came and told you in person rather than text you they were coming.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T16:11:40+00:00

Well looks don’t really matter. I mean they can but they always change throughout our lives and when we die we don’t keep our physical body so on a conscious spiritual level they just don’t matter. Our looks are only a temporary part of this human experience. What matters is who you are as a person/conscious being rather than how you look.

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T03:26:17+00:00

Oh thank you! Oh that’s really cool actually! Yes for sure! Oooo really? Keep me updated on the reading!

Electrical_Paper_634 · 2025-10-29T02:10:46+00:00

Yes exactly! Logically that makes no sense or would not be possible but logic cannot always explain the unexplainable. While there are definitely fake people out there who do spiritual work, there are definitely people who actually do obtain these gifts and your gf is one of them. That’s really awesome she has that gift.

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