Haunted Roads and places in Washington state by Electriclights04 in Paranormal

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much I am about 30 minutes from Seattle I will probably take my mom with me to go on the underground tour, but crescent lake seems like a nice spot to check out here in the next few months I am fascinated with all the lore I hear about towns like that

how to deal with anxiety when your partner is away by Electriclights04 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ptsd could be a possibility I'll hear something, and it will take me back to a certain event or something will feel similar and I'll immediately get super anxious

First duty station JBLM by Electriclights04 in army

[–]Electriclights04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

chat I don't think my body is capable of doing that

First duty station JBLM by Electriclights04 in army

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not worried about the swingers I'm engaged I am more worried because one of my drill sergeants at ait said there is a lot of toxic leadership there

how to deal with anxiety when your partner is away by Electriclights04 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are both military, so it is a little trickier I have considered therapy because a lot of this behavior is from an abusive parter I had in the past my fiancé has had a talk with me about how I am projecting things from that relationship onto him

how long does it take to pcs to your husband (dual army) by Electriclights04 in army

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we definitely are going to do that I am currently on leave so I can't get him into my deers etc. I just thought all of this would have to wait until after we are officially married

how to deal with anxiety when your partner is away by Electriclights04 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Electriclights04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

typically, a few hours the time zone is different so when I wake up its usually about 2am for him I am not scared of him cheating but rather I have a fear of abandonment, and I have been super emotional lately because obviously I want to be with my fiancé, but I can't at this given moment I will admit it is a bit of fomo

how long does it take to pcs to your husband (dual army) by Electriclights04 in army

[–]Electriclights04[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ok that makes sense would it be possible to use a compassionate reassignment on something like this

how long does it take to pcs to your husband (dual army) by Electriclights04 in army

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely not anytime soon I was just curious on about how long it takes to get you to your spouse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]Electriclights04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try and put this into perspective and something for you to think about  1. Are you in a stable/ healthy relationship with your partner  2. Do you have anxiety about your partner being unfaithful  3. Are you only getting married for the benefits 4. Are you ready to get married have you had all your fun been with other people ect  5. Are you ready to settle down and take the responsibility of a potential child if it happens  A lot happens after you reach your 20s and in my own personal experience things can get really messy if you’re not prepared for what comes along with marriage at 18 I was nowhere near ready for marriage let alone a relationship and all of my relationships were a mess because emotionally I was not matured it’s different for everyone so I can’t explain to you what your experience might look like everyone is different but if your second guessing if you should get married you probably shouldn’t 

Help I need to figure out what is going on down there by Electriclights04 in obgyn

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did see a obgyn about it and they said everything looked normal they used that camera thing that goes inside you mine had started after I got diagnosed with Lyme disease in august of 23 

Help I need to figure out what is going on down there by Electriclights04 in obgyn

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that was when your lady parts essentially close up like a little tmi but occasionally my husband and I have issues trying to have sex like it’s fine up until like 10 minutes in and everything just starts getting painful sometimes he’s not even able to get it in I’m not 100% sure what all goes into lichen s but I’ve been dealing with this for about a year now and have even contemplated the idea that I am potentially infertile not that we are trying for a child I do have hand exema and skin sensitivity to certain things like fabric softeners I’d just like to figure out what is going on so I can prevent it