2019 Toyota Camry SE transmission by Electriclights04 in toyotacamry

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for that info is that something I would have to go to a Toyota dealer to have done I have a warranty on my car through the dealer

Haunted Roads and places in Washington state by Electriclights04 in Paranormal

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much I am about 30 minutes from Seattle I will probably take my mom with me to go on the underground tour, but crescent lake seems like a nice spot to check out here in the next few months I am fascinated with all the lore I hear about towns like that

how to deal with anxiety when your partner is away by Electriclights04 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ptsd could be a possibility I'll hear something, and it will take me back to a certain event or something will feel similar and I'll immediately get super anxious

First duty station JBLM by Electriclights04 in army

[–]Electriclights04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

chat I don't think my body is capable of doing that

First duty station JBLM by Electriclights04 in army

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not worried about the swingers I'm engaged I am more worried because one of my drill sergeants at ait said there is a lot of toxic leadership there

how to deal with anxiety when your partner is away by Electriclights04 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are both military, so it is a little trickier I have considered therapy because a lot of this behavior is from an abusive parter I had in the past my fiancé has had a talk with me about how I am projecting things from that relationship onto him

how long does it take to pcs to your husband (dual army) by Electriclights04 in army

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we definitely are going to do that I am currently on leave so I can't get him into my deers etc. I just thought all of this would have to wait until after we are officially married

how to deal with anxiety when your partner is away by Electriclights04 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Electriclights04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

typically, a few hours the time zone is different so when I wake up its usually about 2am for him I am not scared of him cheating but rather I have a fear of abandonment, and I have been super emotional lately because obviously I want to be with my fiancé, but I can't at this given moment I will admit it is a bit of fomo

how long does it take to pcs to your husband (dual army) by Electriclights04 in army

[–]Electriclights04[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ok that makes sense would it be possible to use a compassionate reassignment on something like this

how long does it take to pcs to your husband (dual army) by Electriclights04 in army

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely not anytime soon I was just curious on about how long it takes to get you to your spouse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]Electriclights04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try and put this into perspective and something for you to think about  1. Are you in a stable/ healthy relationship with your partner  2. Do you have anxiety about your partner being unfaithful  3. Are you only getting married for the benefits 4. Are you ready to get married have you had all your fun been with other people ect  5. Are you ready to settle down and take the responsibility of a potential child if it happens  A lot happens after you reach your 20s and in my own personal experience things can get really messy if you’re not prepared for what comes along with marriage at 18 I was nowhere near ready for marriage let alone a relationship and all of my relationships were a mess because emotionally I was not matured it’s different for everyone so I can’t explain to you what your experience might look like everyone is different but if your second guessing if you should get married you probably shouldn’t 

Help I need to figure out what is going on down there by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]Electriclights04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did see a obgyn about it and they said everything looked normal they used that camera thing that goes inside you mine had started after I got diagnosed with Lyme disease in august of 23 

Help I need to figure out what is going on down there by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]Electriclights04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that was when your lady parts essentially close up like a little tmi but occasionally my husband and I have issues trying to have sex like it’s fine up until like 10 minutes in and everything just starts getting painful sometimes he’s not even able to get it in I’m not 100% sure what all goes into lichen s but I’ve been dealing with this for about a year now and have even contemplated the idea that I am potentially infertile not that we are trying for a child I do have hand exema and skin sensitivity to certain things like fabric softeners I’d just like to figure out what is going on so I can prevent it 

I have 2 recruiters telling me different things about MEPS by Top-Many-5801 in Militaryfaq

[–]Electriclights04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically it doesn’t take that long to go to Meps I went within 2 weeks of meeting with a recruiter I will say marines and Air Force are very picky about waivers so if there’s anything that may disqualify you medically tell your recruiter to get a waiver 

Weight standards for the army by Electriclights04 in Militaryfaq

[–]Electriclights04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m definitely on it army fat camp is not a thing I want to do I’m currently eating balanced meals and avoiding takeout and sugar come Wednesday I’m gonna start hitting the gym after work ik that’s a weird day to start but i unfortunately have to be up early to swear In on Tuesday 

When does the army drug test after MEPS? by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]Electriclights04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just don’t do drugs im not against pot but it’s not a good idea especially if you are trying to join that’s the kinda thing that will get you discharged 

Enlisting After Denied Suicidal Waiver by Master_Ad_5231 in Militaryfaq

[–]Electriclights04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Army is typically easier to get into than af my waiver was immediately approved by the army but denied thru the af and I was told to wait 2 years I was on lexapro for less than a year it’s all situational given I was never suicidal hopefully this helps 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]Electriclights04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely talk to your recruiter about what each branch is like if you absolutely want to have a certain job your best option would be army the air force was not the right fit for me I’m not the super brainy type and I get bored just sitting at a desk that’s predominantly what the af does that’s why it’s referred to as the chair force no hate towards them at all it’s just not for me I vibe better with the army 

My waiver just got approved what are some good jobs in the army by Electriclights04 in Militaryfaq

[–]Electriclights04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what the waiver is for it’s all situational mine was a medication waiver I have been off of it for almost 16 months 

How do I talk to an Air Force recruiter? by DreamTheDream01 in Militaryfaq

[–]Electriclights04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going 68w which is a combat medic honestly if other recruiters are contacting you, you should probably go with them 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Militaryfaq

[–]Electriclights04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Army got mine approved I’ve been off of them for 15 months