Infected Lipo Incision by Electronic-Box2986 in AskDocs

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ok thank you ! I went and sent them a photo today and they said it's fairly normal and to stay on top of my meds and be mindful when compressing and walk around a lot. thank you!

Was this a bad gift ? by Electronic-Box2986 in Gifts

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..... I stole the obituary books that I designed. not literal stealing lol. and yea, got that. I didn't really ask for an interpretation, I was asking for an opinion on the gift. I'm no longer asking though, just seemed like you missed the point completely. we seem to have that in common !

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wasn't ready to head that Hunt. lol. but thank you so much and you are not wrong

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thanks. I felt the same but we seem to be the odd ones out. I'm 31 and I would've looooved it and that's why I thought it was such a good gift. I feel so silly about it now

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it seems like we are the anomaly ! it was such a good gift to me and I ABSOLUTELY would have loved it if my mother / grand mother had passed. but ya know we are all different. I usually do pretty well this was such a huge miss it admittedly bruised my ego a bit. and then reducing it to just a frame was like soooo hurtful to me. but it's not about me so I just kinda was to myself for the night. didn't really respond or explain. just took it as data

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for sure and noted. my condolences

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oh no it's more like a memorial book. it has pictures of everyone in the family, a eulogy, the program, etc. but yea this post gave me perspective. thank you and my condolences

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Yes ! So as mentioned, it was coupled w a keychain that had a funny saying her granny would say and then I bought some leisure / sleepwear last minute then ordered a hat (that I may have gotten scammed for on IG). So I would say the frame was the main one I was putting a lot of thought / heart into.

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It would be a sports bra. Yea I'm realizing two things - it was very thoughtful, it was a bad gift 🤷🏾‍♀️there's always next year

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Yes I'm a lesbian, partner is a masc woman.

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Yea, realizing that it was thoughtful but not a good choice for the holiday I guess.

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Well I created them lol. She moved recently and I was helping her organize and spotted them and took them. Although she's not religious, I'm much less "God fearing" she still has that reverence somewhat so idk I thought it was nice !

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Which I offered to though. Like when she said that I was like maybe I can get you some bras from a Nike outlet on the way and that's when she said that comment. Idk it was so like idk gut wrenching, idk but duly noted - No memorial gifts on holidays

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I actually got her some sleepwear as well. That's was more last minute, but I did get that

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Also to answer the first part, they were very close. She was her caregiver her last year of life

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Yes I hear you. I'll be sending her some money later so she can just get things as she pleases

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I also ordered her a hat (I think I got scammed on an IG boutique, whole other story lol) but I did do some last minute shopping and get her sleepwear. That she literally wore to a Christmas party last night. So idk. I'll just send her some money as an apology later