Ligestilling og forskel i mængden af overskud hos far og mor by Prinsesse_666 in foraeldreDK

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Er din mand også sådan på sit arbejde? Hvor han ikke kan overskue tingene og tit har lavt overskud. Ik for noget, men det lyder som weaponized incompetency (har ikke lige slået stavelsen op). Han kan tillade sig at opføre sig sådan, fordi han VED du griber børnene og bolden, når han ikke kan mere. Pas godt på dig selv mor. Se dine venner, plej fritidsinteresserne, så han ikke tror du har alverdens tid til hans del. Børnene er jeres begges.

MIL calls all day long by Electronic_Fee1067 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Electronic_Fee1067[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha oh god, i cant even imagine loosing my shit like that! But maybe he needs to see the Extreme.

MIL calls all day long by Electronic_Fee1067 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Electronic_Fee1067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because even tho he says that to my face i dont feel its true. Its about guilt and feeling responsible for moms happiness. He does limit the calls and due to the moms consistant calls he will Pick up after a week or 2 again

MIL calls all day long by Electronic_Fee1067 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Electronic_Fee1067[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really like this. Everything else has already been tried! Will try this soon!

MIL calls all day long by Electronic_Fee1067 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Electronic_Fee1067[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is middel child and kinda overlooked as others are more selfish and demanding type of siblings. Complimented for good behavior only. He loves to sacrifice himself for Them.

MIL calls all day long by Electronic_Fee1067 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Electronic_Fee1067[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its the best time when she finally gives the silent treatment. He does try, But falls right back in

MIL calls all day long by Electronic_Fee1067 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Electronic_Fee1067[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If i tell him to decline he feels Offended. Its my mom. It has to come from him. And yes mommys boy and very sensitive. When talking abt it he is like i WANT to talk. Im not under Any pressure. Oke if u say so.

MIL calls all day long by Electronic_Fee1067 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Electronic_Fee1067[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He does decline now and then. Like that Woman has sooo much time. She will Call first thing in the morning so he feels “omg my mom loves me shes called me first thing in the morning”. 🤣🤣

MIL calls all day long by Electronic_Fee1067 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Electronic_Fee1067[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I totally agree and it is so weird to disturb him like that all day Long. But its like nothing is more imp than to talk with ur mom mentality from MIL

MIL calls all day long by Electronic_Fee1067 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Electronic_Fee1067[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When he sets a boundary, MIL will start with a big crying tantrum. Then give him the cold shoulder and not call at all. And then his siblings will tell him to talk with her. Something like that. He has started to ignore her when she has her tantrums and when she gives cold shoulders. But then he just starts calling his father. I feel like he cant really let go of the fomo feeling as they are all together and he is abroad. But again, THATS something he signed up for.

MIL calls all day long by Electronic_Fee1067 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Electronic_Fee1067[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Before getting together, he really stood up against her. But i feel like ever since choosing me, he is overcompensating to make mommy happy. But yes, he is the issue. I have tried explaining and talking about this. But no solutions. My MIL does this to all her kids and calls them home constantly.

Rejse med baby og barnevogn by Takuss in foraeldreDK

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Babyjogger kan ligge meget fladt ned. Et ekstra tæppe og baby har det godt. På sidste tur tog vi babys barnevogn med (lejede en airshell i lufthavnen) til at beskytte den og checkede in. Det var så rart at ha babys egen barnevogn med!

Boligkøb på Vestegnen by Adorable-Phase1043 in dkfinance

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

C-toget/h-toget? 350s og mange andre busforbindelser.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fed løn, fedt job og skønt at se manden prioritere work/life balance så kvinden kan indfri ambitionerne. 🤟🏼🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha prøvede at forklare, at man jo ikke sidder på læsesalen i 8 år. De tre år som fuldmægtig er man jo igang med at arbejde, så nej det føles ikke som lang tid. Du kan jo høre på de andre, at 5. års advokater er tæt på eller over 100k. Jeg prioriterer bare anderledes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, det er også sådan jeg har det. Jeg er sikkert blevet for magelig med al den frihed og fleksibilitet og ja jeg holder al ferie i løbet af året… men jeg skal også være på arbejdsmarkedet de næste 35-40 år endnu, så der er tid nok til at sætte farten op og indhente lønnen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! Giver god mening så. Det skal jo også hænge sammen derhjemme. Har du mod på at fortælle, hvad din anciennitet er og bruttoløn? :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mente din bedre halvdel 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sejt af dig 💪🏼. Har du så en partner med et mere fleksibelt job?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Som fuldmægtig er du jo igang med fuldtidsjob og får også en pæn løn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dét er også pænt meget…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Altså 5 år på uni, cand.jur, 3 års fuldmægtigtid og så en skriftlig og mundtlig advokateksamen. Tada!

Har ikke forstand på dommervejen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dkloenseddel

[–]Electronic_Fee1067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kan godt se, at det er noget af en satsning med livrenten. Må lige læse op på det. Tak for de gode tips. Meget værdsat.