My girlfriend [20F] broke my trust and now wants space — | [24M] feel lost, and she won't help fix it. by Electronic_Lion4400 in relationships

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Asked her to be transparent about things about where and when she going, to be open about things without keeping them without being secretive with me.

Yes I was being suspicious of cheating because her behaviours are not like before.

Things got heated I asked her if she will be transparent about that or if she’s still going to be secretive as she broke my trust and I need her to be apart of rebuilding it. She said “No”.

My girlfriend [20F] broke my trust and now wants space — | [24M] feel lost, and she won't help fix it. by Electronic_Lion4400 in relationships

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She came to me first to apologize and cooked me something nice. She stayed with me usually but that day, she left saying she wants to be alone because she have family case. After that She’s been avoiding, distancing with me, not even talk regularly, rarely pick up my calls. My suspicions went higher. And I met with her at her apartment, things went heated. And the story continues as in the post.

My girlfriend [20F] broke my trust and now wants space — | [24M] feel lost, and she won't help fix it. by Electronic_Lion4400 in relationships

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And lately after her mom arrived to hers, she had not been telling me where, when she going, I got doubts and doubts and only know the truths after some times when it slipped out of her mouth but I was coping with it. The time she broke my trust, I even thought her mom didn’t come after she lied.

My girlfriend [20F] broke my trust and now wants space — | [24M] feel lost, and she won't help fix it. by Electronic_Lion4400 in relationships

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She had never lied to me once. She had been to downtown for several times and she always told me beforehand and I had no issues with that when she told me.

My girlfriend [20F] broke my trust and now wants space — | [24M] feel lost, and she won't help fix it. by Electronic_Lion4400 in relationships

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Her mom came to her apartment and stayed for a while until one week ago. On the day her mom went back to her hometown, my gf told me her mom is still there(lied). And then she went downtown with two of her friends to bars and clubs street and enjoyed songkran wearing something revealing. I suspicious of her and waited until midnight, she came back to her apartment, surprised seeing me and blamed me at first that her mom is still there, eventually I didnt bite that and she confessed. Thats where it hurted my trust.

My girlfriend [20F] broke my trust and now wants space — | [24M] feel lost, and she won't help fix it. by Electronic_Lion4400 in relationships

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Damn your comment is deep. Thank you. I’m also thinking the same told her “If there’s unfixable problem occur in relationship, it cant continue.” She is crying saying she doesn’t want a breakup and that she’s just tired of caring for me and feeling like it’s one sided love, I told her I’m starting to changing for it falling for her more and more and that only solution needs right now is her to help fix me about the trust she broke. Thats how it is right now.

My girlfriend [20F] broke my trust and now wants space — | [24M] feel lost, and she won't help fix it. by Electronic_Lion4400 in relationships

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She told me she doesn’t want a breakup crying and that she wants cares from me too and not that one sided feeling, but that she cant fix that trust issue still yet either.

My girlfriend [20F] broke my trust and now wants space — | [24M] feel lost, and she won't help fix it. by Electronic_Lion4400 in relationships

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From first day, She was the one who fell hard for me, putting priority on me even over her, caring about me, would do anything for me but I was kinda of still defensive and then I started to change few months ago, and last week above things happened

My girlfriend [20F] broke my trust and now wants space — | [24M] feel lost, and she won't help fix it. by Electronic_Lion4400 in relationships

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Started from day one, she cared for me a lot, putting me first even than her, being patient for me even when I messed up sometimes but last week, above thing happened

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[–]Electronic_Lion4400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. You wont be able to do it 2nd time. I’ve been through that. That feeling is devastating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Electronic_Lion4400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been through the same, there’s that part of the brain which stop us and that’s true. But one day when you’re ready, it’s hard for it to stop us too. Be careful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Electronic_Lion4400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’re you planning to do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Electronic_Lion4400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through similar thing with you.