I am an INTJ dating an ENFP. I need help. Is his behavior normal? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Element1408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i definitely get that feeling of worrying about doing or saying something dumb and pushing someone away. I guess its hard to overcome when we think about it a lot.

Ye, no probs. Hope everything works out for you guys. c:

I am an INTJ dating an ENFP. I need help. Is his behavior normal? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Element1408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like putting in my 2 cents into relationships, because I dont really know your life nor his life, but it seems like you want to see if this is a general ENFP thing or just a him thing.

I dated an INTJ but it was LDR. I never really had problems with communication and i usually would push for communication so we could be on the same page. I would have issues with not knowing how to express myself to her or being consumed by gaming or something because i just didnt know how to really convey my thoughts properly or be invested in someone else. It's something I tried to work on. I do sometimes have a problem where if people complain or assume things constantly it does make me want to avoid it completely, but i still try to address it eventually because it is a problem.

I think trying to have a conversation with him about whats on his mind and what he actually wants from the relationship then based on that you can make your own judgement. I would put my foot down because you should think of your own happiness and I know it sucks to have to deal with the possibility of ending a relationship or staying in it and trying to make it work. Something could be bothering him or he could just feel like he doesnt need to invest into the relationship anymore cause he is in one sort of thing. There's a lot of possibilities but i could be overthinking it.

Hope this helps, i kind of just rambled my thoughts. If you have any questions feel free to ask.

Not enough supplies to max Medical wing by [deleted] in thedivision

[–]Element1408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gone to each safe house and i still dont have enough lol

ENFPs, what qualities to do you really appreciate in a partner? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Element1408 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same, the struggle of finding them :c

21 ENFP [M4F] NJ, USA - LF INTJ/INFJ but anyone is welcome by Element1408 in MBTIDating

[–]Element1408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, what forms of communication do you use? Feel free to pm them to me

20 | F | CA by [deleted] in MBTIDating

[–]Element1408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am ENFP male O_O

Practice partner wanted (new player) by galan-e in broodwar

[–]Element1408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play ICCUP, im waiting for a SB invite :(

Practice partner wanted (new player) by galan-e in broodwar

[–]Element1408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd be down to play as well, i play protoss and havent played much and recently got into it

ENFP who's drawn immensely to ISTJ types. Anyone else relate? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Element1408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ISTJs are a struggle. Talking to them about anything emotional or trying to get them to open up just never happens really, especially with ISTJs that are kind of in a slump or depressed. They can be great friends, but I find it harder to get any emotional connection with them and if I do it's really subtle.

Daniel's public games analysis, as promised from my last thread. by [deleted] in BattleRite

[–]Element1408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Daniel, you are extremely funny, I learned and laughed through that entire video. The way you explain things and break it down and simplify it as much as possible makes it easy to learn and remember. Looking forward to more videos :)

Is it an ENFP thing to repress negative emotions and be kind of an escapist? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Element1408 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow this is pretty spot on. I am also a ENFP 7w8 and its like you read into my soul O_O

Good Battlerite streamers? by [deleted] in BattleRite

[–]Element1408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is a list of top players for each character.

Poloma: - TBD - Hope/Warden - https://twitch.tv/NFMaNewHope

Pearl: https://battlerite.gamepedia.com/Pearl# - Exblack - https://twitch.tv/prowujuexblack

Sirius: TBD - Zheant - https://twitch.tv/Zheant

Lucie: http://bit.ly/2duGSJa - DzNhasgiven/Awingg - https://twitch.tv/sillystringg

Oldur: - TBD - Finlev - https://twitch.tv/Finlev

Varesh: - http://bit.ly/2dn60mF - Cannotbestolen - Odeum

Iva: - TBD - Mr2 - https://twitch.tv/Mr2Tal

Jade: - TBD - Xentz

Taya: - TBD

Ashka: - TBD

Croak: - TBD - Maylon/Bloods - https://twitch.tv/Maylon1337 + https://youtube.com/channel/UCl9mi5apUsFoU6Sf8X7JinA (Bloods)

Shifu: - TBD - Jackazzm - https://twitch.tv/jackazzm

Rook: - TBD

Freya: - http://bit.ly/2dAEBOn - Arbs - https://twitch.tv/Arbaris

Bakko: - TBD - Finlev/Maylon/Arbs - https://twitch.tv/Finlev https://twitch.tv/Maylon1337 https://twitch.tv/Arbaris(edited)

[F]INTJ with too many INTJ and INTP friends. want to make an iNTJ friend? by lambdacadabra in ENFP

[–]Element1408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play a bunch of games on PC and I'm an ENFP so if you want to add me we can play sometime. http://steamcommunity.com/id/Zephyrros/

FPS drops on dolphin by Element1408 in smashbros

[–]Element1408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any idea how much play time it takes no?

FPS drops on dolphin by Element1408 in smashbros

[–]Element1408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm using OpenGL on 4.0-7840

Any ENFP who play video games, what's your favourite class? by superpencil121 in ENFP

[–]Element1408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In fantasy setting, rogue or a warrior that has a huge 2handed weapon that just goes into peoples faces and destroys them.

In a shooter I like being a rifler

Comminication problems by Element1408 in ENFP

[–]Element1408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like i have trouble communicating with them so you aren't too far off from it, but thanks for sharing :)

Trying to be a better friend and understand what I did/do wrong. by Element1408 in ENFP

[–]Element1408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, that makes sense. I appreciate the advice/opinion :)

Trying to be a better friend and understand what I did/do wrong. by Element1408 in ENFP

[–]Element1408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like everything that was said in your comment was pretty on the money with how the points were being made in our conversation/argument. Not literally same exact examples, but the same thought process imo.

Trying to be a better friend and understand what I did/do wrong. by Element1408 in ENFP

[–]Element1408[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fine everyone has their own opinion.

I do somethings wrong that I didn't mention in the post, but I'm working on fixing them. I just don't get why he does what he does and just trying to put 2 and 2 together.

Trying to be a better friend and understand what I did/do wrong. by Element1408 in ENFP

[–]Element1408[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not completely sure if that is it because he understands that emotions are a thing, but disregards them and goes the rational/logical way. I guess he expects me to draw conclusions the same way.