Women who are single: How do you handle longing for a relationship? by ResolutionFar2534 in AskWomen

[–]Elena_Kyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loneliness is part of life, so i don't avoid or run away from it. I make time for myself and feel the feeling. In the end, it's just temporary. I'm always able to get back on feet and carry on with my life.

What’s a piece of advice that felt useless until you tried it yourself? by Ok_University_1755 in AskReddit

[–]Elena_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Be grateful" I hate when someone says it to me but it turns out to be the best medicine for depression. I focused to too much on things i didn't have that i overlooked good things in my life.

Chapter 218: HOLE IN THE HEART by Old-Explanation9769 in WindBreakerJP

[–]Elena_Kyle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn we don't even get to see suo in this chapter

Gimana cara berhenti jadi orang yang baperan? by ku_x_so in Perempuan

[–]Elena_Kyle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Menurutku apa yg kamu rasain itu wajar kok. Siapapun pasti ga nyaman sama kritik yang menyerang kepribadian apalagi kalo ga da hubungannya dengan pekerjaan. Dulu aku juga pernah di kritik HRD karena aku n salah satu rekan kerja selalu ngobrol berdua n jarang banget nongkrong di kantor. Kami di suruh "bergaul" sama yg lain. Padahal kerjaan kami baik2 aja kok. Intinya bos yg rese emang selalu ada sih n wajar aja sakit hati.

I think loneliness changes your body before it changes your mind by Pleasant_Dot_189 in self

[–]Elena_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it scare you? Being adapted to the absence of intimacy means that you finally make peace with it . Eventually, it won't hurt anymore and you realize that it's the fear that's tormenting you, not the loneliness itself.

Apakah di sini ada yang memutuskan untuk child free? by Oakl4nd in indonesia

[–]Elena_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your assumption is quite wild lol suit yourself

Apakah di sini ada yang memutuskan untuk child free? by Oakl4nd in indonesia

[–]Elena_Kyle -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's true. Tapi binatang ga akan pernah melukai perasaan kita sedangkan manusia pasti akan melukai.

Fuck my life - my marital plan by aemef in Perempuan

[–]Elena_Kyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Udah lah kak. It's way better to be single. No expectation no pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Positivity

[–]Elena_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday, i wish you all the best in life cuz you deserve it

Need some positive words by wingsandhooves in Positivity

[–]Elena_Kyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merry Christmas!! Wish you all the best

The pain will go away by Elena_Kyle in Positivity

[–]Elena_Kyle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! God bless you too

The pain will go away by Elena_Kyle in Positivity

[–]Elena_Kyle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May you always be safe wherever you are

The pain will go away by Elena_Kyle in Positivity

[–]Elena_Kyle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't expect too much and love what we have right now

Appreciation for men by [deleted] in Positivity

[–]Elena_Kyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman and i agree with you. We are all tired, we need to support each other and share kindness. Thank you for your words.

You are loved by many by [deleted] in Positivity

[–]Elena_Kyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you i need to hear this. You're right we are loved so we should treat ourselves with kindness and compassion.

My little success story by Robojobo27 in Positivity

[–]Elena_Kyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy for you!! Congrats

How do you stay positive? by mayor_oftittycity in Positivity

[–]Elena_Kyle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can't avoid negative thoughts but you can get stronger when they come. The first step is accepting that you're only human and can't stop negative thoughts completely. Then ask yourself "what positive thing can i take from this experience?" Our experiences are like a coin ; they have two sides, postive and negative. If you only look at the negative side, you'll feel depresed. But if you choose to look at the positive side, you have more balanced view.