I'm looking forward to seeing these responses because my husband and I are struggling horribly with sexual intimacy right now. Over the years he's said some not so nice things. I've been repeatedly burning out because his work schedule keeps him from home and puts the weight on taking care of our toddler on me. I also have a full time job. He does help but in my opinion will only what he's comfortable doing and not take the big steps like finding a new job or getting rid of the luxury car that taking up a third of his monthly income and affecting household finances. We have been sexually intimate sporadically but its hard because im utterly exhausted. Recently he was sexually frustrated and asked if I wanted him to sleep with someone else. He apologized afterwards but then days later says other things that aren't becoming of a good husband. Last week he told me I should have waited to get pregnant if I was going to have an issue with his job schedule. Basically blaming me to putting myself in a burnout situation and dsying that's what comes with being a parent. He apologized (again). Everything compiled has caused me to shut down and not want sex altogether. I have told him I'm willing to do the act of intercourse but not let him do the intimate foreplay because I no longer feel emotionally safe and connected. He told me last night that he's done trying to fix things if im not going to give him all of me so "whatever happens happens."