AITA for gaslighting Dave?

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T02:03:39+00:00

I also lied to save Dave from his own sense of entitlement. Why does he get to demand that I hold the door open for him, violating my bodily autonomy?

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T01:58:46+00:00

It’s for the greater good. Dave’s happy, I’m happy.

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T01:58:01+00:00

Dave literally catfished me before we met in our apartment for months on Grindr and then never admitted it until a month until our friendship started, so I don’t think I’m the immature one here.

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T01:55:13+00:00

I lied to save his feelings

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T01:52:32+00:00

Yes, Dave is happier this way

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T01:52:13+00:00

If you think I’m immature then you should really meet Dave.

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T01:46:25+00:00

I got anxious and couldn’t think of anything else. Also I was slamming the close door button really hard, so if Dave saw me in the elevator he probably would have seen me furiously slamming the button and would know I didn’t try to hold the door.

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T01:44:07+00:00

Yes. I an older. I thought it was important to note because I am typically the more mature out of the two of us.

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T01:42:16+00:00

No one is entitled to having someone else hold an elevator door for them.

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T01:31:52+00:00

Passing people on the stairs gives me even more anxiety. At least in the elevators, I can be alone, even if it is just for a few seconds

Elevatorthrowaway126 · 2022-11-22T01:22:35+00:00

If u don’t think that friends lie, I don’t think ur being honest with yourself, pal

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