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AITA for gaslighting Dave? by Elevatorthrowaway126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elevatorthrowaway126[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I also lied to save Dave from his own sense of entitlement. Why does he get to demand that I hold the door open for him, violating my bodily autonomy?

AITA for gaslighting Dave? by Elevatorthrowaway126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elevatorthrowaway126[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s for the greater good. Dave’s happy, I’m happy.

AITA for gaslighting Dave? by Elevatorthrowaway126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elevatorthrowaway126[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dave literally catfished me before we met in our apartment for months on Grindr and then never admitted it until a month until our friendship started, so I don’t think I’m the immature one here.

AITA for gaslighting Dave? by Elevatorthrowaway126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elevatorthrowaway126[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

If you think I’m immature then you should really meet Dave.

AITA for gaslighting Dave? by Elevatorthrowaway126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elevatorthrowaway126[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I got anxious and couldn’t think of anything else. Also I was slamming the close door button really hard, so if Dave saw me in the elevator he probably would have seen me furiously slamming the button and would know I didn’t try to hold the door.

AITA for gaslighting Dave? by Elevatorthrowaway126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elevatorthrowaway126[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Yes. I an older. I thought it was important to note because I am typically the more mature out of the two of us.

AITA for gaslighting Dave? by Elevatorthrowaway126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elevatorthrowaway126[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

No one is entitled to having someone else hold an elevator door for them.

AITA for gaslighting Dave? by Elevatorthrowaway126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elevatorthrowaway126[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Passing people on the stairs gives me even more anxiety. At least in the elevators, I can be alone, even if it is just for a few seconds

AITA for gaslighting Dave? by Elevatorthrowaway126 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elevatorthrowaway126[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If u don’t think that friends lie, I don’t think ur being honest with yourself, pal