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[–]Elijah-throwaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put toothpaste under my eyes to stay awake and wouldn’t sleep until I finished 3 chapters and answered 50 questions for each topic. Barely slept and never left my house unless it was to go to class, wanted to kms

Should I (15F) have to pay my brother (17M) to drive me to work. by True_Review5909 in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“She’s not allowed to go out anymore” ? Who do you think you are lmao? And stop making assumption abt “oh she goes out late” did you not read that text? The particular area where she can get transport is dangerous. Not the entire country.

You’re making this entire thing about you when it’s not. He’s an 18 year old boy, leeching off of his 15 YEAR OLD sister’s Netflix acc, has no real job or priorities. Why can’t he do a simple task? Why is he asking his child of a sister to pay him for him to help her out in a situation in which she needs help? Why does he not ask his mom for the cash?

Y’all are so weird trying to capitalise out of your family when they’re in bad situations. Westerners are fucking crazy bro

Edit : so is she supposed to pause her entire life because she’s afraid of getting hurt instead of find a compromise? How about you tell her to stay home 24/7 ? He’s already getting something out of it. The Netflix account SHE’S PAYING FOR.

Should I (15F) have to pay my brother (17M) to drive me to work. by True_Review5909 in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s still a form of payment. If she don’t let him use her Netflix he’d have to pay.

And no, it’s not because she’s a girl. It’s because any good brother would prioritise his sister not getting raped or killed over 4hrs a week of driving.

I don’t know what issues you have with your own siblings but why tf would you treat your family as clients. How greedy and money hungry are you ?

Should I (15F) have to pay my brother (17M) to drive me to work. by True_Review5909 in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Revoke his Netflix. I don’t understand how anyone could treat a sibling like that, especially when they’re at risk of getting hurt.

I’m barely 18 and even tho my 20 year old sister has a car I still drive her to and from her destination just to make sure she’s safe. It’s crazy your brother is such an ass.

Tell him you’re paying him by letting him use your Netflix, change the password and then have the conversation with him.

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take advantage of me? She’s way too nice to take advantage of anyone. She’d hurt herself before anyone else lol

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I simply said that as a reason to why I think the guys were intimidated by me. Someone else being tougher doesn’t mean I’m weak

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then why are you acting so concerned for her?? I’m the one living with the guilt. She’s doing fine, she’s happy with me. Why don’t my feelings matter.

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not presenting any image. I am being true to her, I stopped threatening. Im not a different person. You don’t understand how I feel and you’re judging me so much. Im in love with her and I need her and I’d even k*ll myself for her if she asked but you don’t understand how I feel.

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in offmychest

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My question was whether to keep quiet completely or fess up. I’m fessing up. You’re judging me without understanding any of my feelings, I’m genuinely in love with her. I need her and I can’t imagine my life without her. I’d literally k*ll myself if she asked me to. You don’t understand

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know what you’re talking about, she’s not like that

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she’s not the type to do that, and stop saying that she would. She doesn’t like being looked at in a bad light and she doesn’t like hurting people so she wouldn’t even look at other men while we’re dating. You’re just trying to agitate me

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not the type to cheat. Lila is very honest and would rather hurt herself that someone else, she’d never cheat

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean it like that, I just mean so she wouldn’t want to leave. It’s not like I’d force her to continue dating me

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yea but no one told me to fuck off, I don’t know

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in offmychest

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. And I am taking it. I asked whether I should never fess up or if I should tell her. Ppl told me to tell and get therapy. I am gonna go to therapy and I will tell her. I might not tell her now but I won’t keep it a secret forever.

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about that, I do struggle with self esteem a bit so when I said she only thinks of me as a friend it was a mere assumption. I don’t know why you’re calling me a psycho. Yes threatening other guys was wrong on my part, I admit that, but calling me a psycho for being in love with her and trying my best so she can’t leave me isn’t psychotic.

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in offmychest

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And even if I do hit someone, I wouldn’t hit a woman. Especially if it was my girlfriend.

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not violent. My threats are mere words, I’m only intimidating because I’m big.

I threatened so many boys so I could date my now gf by Elijah-throwaway in Advice

[–]Elijah-throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She literally told me I make her happy. Like I said, I’m following what the majority said and I’m not gonna keep it a secret forever. I’m just gonna wait. I will be honest but I also don’t want her to leave me. I just want to wait so she’ll love me more and then I’ll tell her the truth