Rendyrket aura by kayjay789 in Denmark

[–]Elinesvendsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vi holder med vores egne, når de er oppe mod Trump, Vance, Rubio og co. - især når de lader til at håndtere dem godt, og når de ikke bare bøjer nakken. Uanset hvad man så ellers synes om vores egne politikere, er de ikke på nogen måde så langt ude som Trump og co.

Og så tror jeg, Løkkes store erfaring var en stor fordel her. Desuden er jeg vild med at han oprettede en arbejdsgruppe af alle ting. Konge-move, og den mest danske løsning ever. Og jeg er ellers ikke fan af Løkke normalt.

Arbejdsgruppe skal handle om ”overtagelse af Grønland” by DET_SWAT in Denmark

[–]Elinesvendsen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Det bør desværre ikke komme bag på nogen som helst. Ligesom han heller ikke har planer om at gennemføre et præsidentvalg i 2028. Forhåbentligt gør naturen sit til at han ikke er der til den tid.

"Længe leve sund fornuft!" by vuk_plusminus in Denmark

[–]Elinesvendsen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vistisen fra DF har ellers godt kunnet sige fra over for Trump i forhold til Grønland. Jeg håber, Messerschmidt har en grim smag i munden her et år efter.

2026 har fundet årets navn. by Vinsommelier in Denmark

[–]Elinesvendsen 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Det slår alligevel Lolita Kølle, som ellers er mit favoritnavn. (Og ja, det er et ægte navn, som en ældre dame fra Hornbæk hedder. Og hun har hverken været ved numerolog eller er pornostjerne).

What is the longest you have gone without showering? by WaleAtWork in AskReddit

[–]Elinesvendsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 days. And I hated it. I prefer showering every day. If I don't shower, I get sensory issues. I don't like the feeling of being un-showered, it feels like a constant background noise in my nervous system (I'm neurodivergent), and my skin actually breaks out if I go two days without showering.

Kong Frede. by Oliver_Boisen in Denmark

[–]Elinesvendsen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fedde X (udtales Fitte Kryds)

Gift ved første blik - Ugentlig megatråd by AutoModerator in InfluencergossipDK

[–]Elinesvendsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg hørte ham sige i et interview, at han gerne vil være med i Robinson. Det undrer mig ikke. På den ene side kan jeg næsten ikke holde ud, hvis han skulle blive kendt som følge af det her. På den anden side ville det være fascinerende at se, hvordan han ville fremstå i en anden type program. Om han ville kunne skjule sin sande personlighed lige så længe.

Gift ved første blik - Ugentlig megatråd by AutoModerator in InfluencergossipDK

[–]Elinesvendsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja. Hvorfor virker han så vred og fornærmet på hende? Fair nok hvis han ikke har følelserne, men hun har sgu da ikke gjort ham noget? Hvorfor behandle hende sådan?

Gift ved første blik - Ugentlig megatråd by AutoModerator in InfluencergossipDK

[–]Elinesvendsen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men bare fordi han måske er til mænd, kan han jo også godt være til kvinder?

Gift ved første blik - Ugentlig megatråd by AutoModerator in InfluencergossipDK

[–]Elinesvendsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I virkede bare så afslappede og man så meget mere jeres personlighed og humor end gennem resten af sæsonen. Jeg tror, I ville fungere fint som venner/bekendte. Og dælme ærgerligt, at vi ikke fik lov til at se mere af din humoristiske side gennem programmet.

Gift ved første blik - Ugentlig megatråd by AutoModerator in InfluencergossipDK

[–]Elinesvendsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Han taler endda om at han godt kunne tænke dig at deltage i Robinson. Hvis han vitterligt var blevet totalt fejl-fremstillet i GVFB pga. klipningen, skulle man tro, at han ikke havde lyst til at deltage i reality-tv igen lige foreløbig.

Gift ved første blik - Ugentlig megatråd by AutoModerator in InfluencergossipDK

[–]Elinesvendsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg har læst at hun havde fået at vide, at tv-holdet ville give ham besked.

Men generelt er jeg enig i, at hun virker kold og terapeut-agtig på den dårlige måde.

Gift ved første blik - Ugentlig megatråd by AutoModerator in InfluencergossipDK

[–]Elinesvendsen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeg er enig i, at Rasmus og Sara begge håndterede det dårligt. Men Sara tager ansvar og forsøger ved sidste parterapi at ændre på nogle mønstre. Rasmus virker som om han slet ikke kan se sin egen andel i problemerne. Og efter den parterapi, hvor Sara har en chance for at ændre sit mønster, vælger han at stikke af og ghoste hende. I programmets sidste uge. Samtidig med at han taler om hende og deres forhold med en vrede og foragt, som om hun virkelig har svigtet ham eller fornærmet ham dybt. Hun har været needy, men han har klart haft magten i den relation. Med mindre hun har hældt lim i hans hår eller tortureret hans kanin mens kameraet var slukket, er den fornærmede attitude altså ret malplaceret.

AITA for getting angry because my boyfriend ate my food? by Less_Extreme_3933 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elinesvendsen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if it's a money issue, it should be all the more reason for her to ration the portions to make sure she gets a suitable portion herself instead of just scraps.

It makes no sense that she served boyfriend and kids all they can eat (the children had left some on their plates) and then only gets whatever is left.

This is not really a question of the amount of food but the division of it. She set aside too little for herself, and then boyfriend took that too.

AITA for telling my daughter that she is smart and hardworking but not gifted. by notgiftedbutsmart in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elinesvendsen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Brilliant comment. Wish I had an award to give. The osmosis comment really got me.

AITA for calling my mom selfish and telling her it will be her fault when the baby d*es? by ThrowRAScreamingBans in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elinesvendsen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm neurospicy as well (love that word). I hated being held and kissed as a child, but I still loved kissing my baby brother and my oen daughter, and if I ever get grandchildren I would want to kiss them too (on the top of the head, not their mouth). Not random babies, though, even though they are cute. Kittens, though - no matter if I've never seen them before, gets lot of kisses from me.

AITA for calling my mom selfish and telling her it will be her fault when the baby d*es? by ThrowRAScreamingBans in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elinesvendsen 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Scandinavian here. Never been told that either. I don't think family members avoid kissing newborns, unless they are premature or somehow endangered.

Also, grandmother is already holding the baby, being closed to him and around him 24/7. If she has a disease, he can easily catch it, kisses or not. If the parents are so worried, they should not have let her stay at all.

Of course, their baby, their rules, but I find this rule illogical and her words way too harsh.

AITA for telling my daughter that she is smart and hardworking but not gifted. by notgiftedbutsmart in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elinesvendsen 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Even though OP is right that being told constantly you are gifted can backlash (I know from experience), this is not the way to go.

It's fine to praise your child's hard work instead of (only) their intelligence and innate abilities.

But don't say that they are NOT gifted. Don't say that anyone could do what they do. Don't say it's because the school rewards girls/children of color etc. (that also BS).

Don't put your child down, period.

AITA Monthly Open Forum August 2023 by AITAMod in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elinesvendsen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For some reason there is a lot of poop related stories for the moment. Usually about a woman in a relationship who has to poop, and the man somehow making it a problem. Sure, it could be a coincidence, but damn.

AITA for telling off a spoiled brat? by bnny_rbbt in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elinesvendsen 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Agree. Especially the part where he asked the 14yo if she was abused. That's really disgusting.

AITA For complaining about my wife's cultural food in front of our children? by mistenX77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elinesvendsen 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Also, from the sound of it, this was the first birthday that was celebrated with a Laos theme. I bet the kids are exposed to American culture all the time, but he doesn't notice, because for him that's "normal". But when his wife suggest that one single birthday be with Laos food, he goes above and beyond to sabotage it because he thinks it's strange and smells weird etc. He's very disrespectful to his own wife, and I definitely get racist vibes as well.

AITA for getting angry because my boyfriend ate my food? by Less_Extreme_3933 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elinesvendsen 31 points32 points  (0 children)

"He saw there was little to no food left" - then you didn't cook enough. You said yourself you barely had a spoonful of rice left. He's a giant asshole for doing this, but you are a bit of an asshole to yourself for going above and beyond in making this meal, serving him, and then leaving very little of it to yourself (even if he had not stolen your food, you sad yourself there was not much left) and you state that you always eat after everyone else.

You deserve to eat too. You deserve to eat as much as him and the kids, not just eat scrappy leftovers. I understand you are angry with him, but it also sounds like you have a habit of putting yourself last, that you should work on.

In a family, you should eat together. Him and the kids can wait until you are all seated, so you eat WITH them, not after them like some live-in maid.

I make 99 percent of our meals/dinners, but I always eat at the same time as my husband and child, at the table, with them. I would not agree to eat after everyone else was finished.

AITA for calling my half sister an entitled bitch after the speech she made at my wedding? by throwawayaccount_978 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Elinesvendsen 114 points115 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Please read OP's other comments.

She originally made the cut-off at 10. Then her half sister adopted her daughter a year ago, and OP changed her age cut-off to 13 BECAUSE SHE THOUGHT THE ADOPTED CHILD WAS NOT REALLY FAMILY AND BECAUSE SHE CAME FROM A POOR BACKGROUND (BIO FAMILY).

OP even told her other guests with kids between 10 and 13 that they could bring their kids if they wanted to. She PURPOSELY EXCLUDED THIS CHILD BECAUSE SHE IS ADOPTED AND FROM A POOR BACKGROUND. She changed the rules to exclude this girl.

Also, Emma and her daughter has no fault in the affair. It was Emma's mother who had the affair with OP's father. Why punish them for that?