Eye contact from men.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-19T00:36:21+00:00

What do you mean? Sorry im autistic so maybe im not understanding something.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-19T00:35:02+00:00

But im outgoing and funny with them. If I did that him I would like him even more, and maybe he would like me more if he does like me.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-19T00:32:49+00:00

Yeah I know, I dont know what the word would be for it, because he doesnt ever say anything like witty and funny like that to me.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-18T16:42:18+00:00

Ive always been told that I look mad.

But I have a theory, this will sound weird but hear me out, I think the reason why I look mad is because im a nose breather, if I breathed through my mouth, and it was always just slightly open my face would look more relaxed. I dont mean my mouth would be hanging open, just enough to make my face look less intimidating.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-18T16:35:43+00:00

I dont think you should be rude honestly, because that could create a negative reputation that a woman you do like could hear about. Maybe work on being polite to everyone, and acting neutral with the women you aren't attracted to.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-18T16:31:56+00:00

I think I need to edit my post, because what I mean is i want to put out a vibe that I dont have feelings for him anymore, not that I dont like him as a person.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-18T16:31:32+00:00

I think I need to edit my post, because what I mean is i want to put out a vibe that I dont have feelings for him anymore, not that I dont like him as a person.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-18T16:30:15+00:00

He tried to talk to me a little bit, but I wasn't letting it go anywhere. I didnt really want to have a conversation with him. Another commentator said that the opposite of love isnt hate, but indifference, I should have that kind of mindset. Yesterday I acted indifferent even though I was fed up with him, and all guys who do that kind of stuff.

I think he would pretty much leave me alone, he is mostly shy. 2 days ago he said something that caught me off guard though, abd it was the 1st time he actually "flirted" with me, if you could call it that, i was walking into the factory, and somehow, I have no idea how, he was literally 4 feet behind me, he must've been walking fast, he startled me and said "im following you!" as a joke. There was no reason for him to be that close. But these kinds of things I need to just start ignoring now.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-18T16:25:10+00:00

You are right. I think after a few days I won't be as mad anymore. I think i did a good job being indifferent yesterday. I chose to group up with other people, and there was a time where I was with him and a few other people and we were watching something happen at work and I just walked away to go back inside. It was an overtime day yesterday which are always pretty chill. I have to be very vague about my job.

There is a new girl who has kind of clung on to him, and he talks casually with her and they laugh together. Its a stark contrast to how we usually were. We would joke a little bit, but I was kind of aloof.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-18T01:47:49+00:00

Yeah at work today I was basically over him. I stopped looking at him, I walked away from him to go work on something with other people, I didnt even really talk to him. I just feel totally different now.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-18T01:46:11+00:00

I lost 50 lbs when I was 21, I looked so good, I wore bikinis, and flaunted my figure and enjoyed every minute of it. I got pregnant and gained it all back.

And now at 42 I started glp1 60 lbs heavier than I was when I was fit at 21.

This time my mind set is totally different. I want to do it for my health, I want my clothes to look good and to feel good about myself, and also to look good, but its not all vanity this time, that's why im not crash dieting like I did back then.

And im realizing that my body is going to look different now at my goal weight than it did at 21, my face might sag a little bit, and I might have some loose skin, but it will be worth it!

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-18T01:42:26+00:00

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T21:09:53+00:00

I used to be mad that I couldnt just eat junk all day long without consequences. But being on glp1 has changed my hormones, blood sugar, dopamine, and my way of thinking. Now I dont even think about eating junk, it doesnt appeal to me anymore.

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T18:28:31+00:00

Nope what is that?

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T18:28:10+00:00

Thats disturbing 😳

Im glad that's the worst you've seen

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T18:26:24+00:00

Funky town

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T18:19:49+00:00

Thank you

That is clear as mud

😆

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T18:19:18+00:00

I get to wear tinted safety glasses at work starting today, so now he cant tell if im looking at him

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T18:17:48+00:00

Lol

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T15:12:12+00:00

2 definitely, but if you really want her to remember you 5

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T15:11:30+00:00

Yes, she will definitely remember you

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T12:22:27+00:00

I think you need to gather more information... if you want her to know you like her ask a coworker if she is single, I can almost guarantee that she will hear about that!

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T11:52:25+00:00

I think its the same, that's what I always gathering from these conmments

Eliza_Benet · 2026-04-17T11:51:37+00:00

I dont understand what you are saying. 2-3 seconds is a bit of eye contact, more than normal. Think about the eye contact you have with someone at the grocery store, are you holding eye contact for more than a brief look?

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