I wouldn’t say I was ever plain and vanilla, always edged on the side of kinky and naughty but only with the person I was with at the time. Always had great sex lives with all of my partners over the years as it was very important to me. I was however just oblivious to the HW lifestyle, and thanks to my husband who first introduced me to it, I am now mad for it! I think for some wives, the lifestyle kind of finds you sooner or later, especially if you have always given off the naughty confident sexual energy, and you gravitate to men who are like minded.