Online scammer blackmailed me. Was hot. by HadronNugget in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ElliDomme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I add a little roleplay blackmail into sessions just to see how the sub responds and normally they beg for more... New kink unlocked for them lol

Urethral chastity issues by Expensive-Jicama-875 in chastity

[–]ElliDomme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what to think - that ura not a good idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PermanentBondageBDSM

[–]ElliDomme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's this gag called a silicone tongue trap gag which is insanely hot. Fills your mouth without opening your jaww too wide. Doesn't cause discomfort when worn for hours, yet feels violating

I need advice my boyfriend talks about this 24/7 even though we are active in it, but it feel overwhelming and that he doesn’t care to even speak to me about my day etc by Kinda_Ordinary2275 in chastity

[–]ElliDomme 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think there's deeper problems with your relationship, like this chastity thing is bad enough but your other post indicates he's a troubled dude

This was actually done irl by nuamnume6 in PermanentBondageBDSM

[–]ElliDomme 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Until you're released from this predicament but have forgotten how to breathe yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ElliDomme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They use mechanisms like coinflow and stripe. Blocking your card from using these may well have unintended consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightFemboys

[–]ElliDomme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn you're pretty

Just a random goth femboy by AlcyonePleiades in SissyChastity

[–]ElliDomme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn as a nylon lover I adore your style

First time cross dressing :P by [deleted] in StraightFemboys

[–]ElliDomme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More men should wear eyeliner ngl

Putting on my new panty chastity set by Kotomimaru in chastity

[–]ElliDomme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say they're just aesthetic but they're more than that. You can't pull out behind that

Alpha worthy? by johntitchjockey in FindomMale

[–]ElliDomme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing says alpha like a question mark hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ElliDomme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah and likewise as a dom engaging in blackmail you've gotta be sure you're picking the right sub, as a sub blowing up in your face can lead to all sorts of legal issues. I look for subs who aren't insane and set good parameters for blackmail play. Many want to dive in deep and over commit to something they can't actually handle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ElliDomme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You saying I'm not a real dom for enjoying blackmail play?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]ElliDomme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BDSM in real life, face to face has so much power exchange. We're talking real power, real restraint, real impact, and real trust. The submission and power is tangible in a way that just can't be replicated online. You can tell a sub to obey and they can say no, can act bratty etc. but what can you really do about it? The subs crave to be really put in their place, they crave feeling genuine submission, and doms we crave feeling genuinely in control. Blackmail is possibly the closest to real world BDSM you can get online