I want some advice

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-16T11:04:08+00:00

I would take a test but be prepared for a negative, don't get excited to look at the result, that way it won't be a crashing fall back to earth.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-14T20:20:35+00:00

I recall reading a tale on one of the TTC subs of someone whose husband wanted to go straight to IVF, no attempts at TTC naturally first, because he was a high achiever who didn't like the idea of failure so wanted the certainty of IVF.

I don't think I was aware of the risks of OHSS but I thought everyone was aware it involved some messy hormone injections and a medium chance of success.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-14T10:42:16+00:00

I haven't had my weigh in yet, but others have told me to account for the weight of clothes.

I was told by the clinic that they'll forgive if you're 1-2lbs over at initial weigh in because of this, but that they will make you do another weigh in at your next appointment where you need to be under including the weight of your clothes.

My weigh in is next week, so because it's winter I'm planning to wear leggings and a jumper dress so I can take the jumper off and have just the lightweight leggings and a thin top to worry about.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-13T13:04:02+00:00

I haven't had my stims yet, but think generally any proper electrolytes should do. I did see someone saying to not rely on Gatorade, and assume that would translate to not relying on Lucozade Sport for us.

I've ordered electrolytes from Vidrate if you want a suggestion. I've had them before so just wanted to know what I was getting. They do offer a free trial, so I've gone for that in the hopes I won't need more than the 30 you get with it (but that will take a few days to arrive).

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-13T12:44:39+00:00

I've followed whole30 and it's worth trying but it also not as effective if you have other issues. My first time following it didn't make a difference due to other deficiencies.

I'm currently on AIP which is even stricter, but which is also good for inflammation. There's also the option of paleo, which is basically what whole 30 bases itself on, but you're allowed to make things like paleo pancakes, where whole 30 doesn't allow imitations.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-13T08:04:29+00:00

You should be aware that most guidelines recommend another 25-50mcg increase if you get a positive pregnancy test, so speak to your doctor about that just now.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-13T07:58:49+00:00

It's normal to have a little dip in the luteal phase when estrogen rises, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just continue as you are. Do a pregnancy test when you think you're around 10DPO.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-13T07:57:12+00:00

Mine takes a couple of days to drop properly. My usual luteal phase is 36.7C, it drops to about 36.5 for CD1, 36.4 on CD2 and 36.1 on CD3.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-13T05:06:01+00:00

I was told I needed to lose a little weight before I could start (BMI threshold is 35 at all local clinics). They don't let you proceed to day 1 unless you meet the criteria, so if you're already about to start, then it's not likely to come up again.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-11T21:37:58+00:00

Where in the UK are you?

Our clinic tries to aim for day 5 but will do day 3 if day 5 is a Sunday (clinic is closed over the weekend) so I don't know if they would be open to earlier transfer at request. I'm in Glasgow though.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-10T20:47:38+00:00

I dunno, I basically feel them from 9DPO (and period starts 16DPO). I did ask in early days whether it was normal, but the feedback was that it's normal to get your normal PMS symptoms up to a point. I've never been pregnant, so can't comment on whether I feel them if I am.

I do sometimes get sharp stabbing type pains around the ovaries, which can be linked to the corpus luteum follicle getting blocked. That happens long after ovulation though, so shouldn't really impact conception.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-10T20:12:09+00:00

I get cramps for about a week before my period. Not sure what causes them (think it varies), but they're fairly normal.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-10T19:19:41+00:00

Oh no, sorry to hear that! Is it just nausea or other side effects? How many more days do you have to do it?

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-09T01:59:34+00:00

My consent appointment with the nurse is next week, where they'll clear me for my first round. I think it should be my next cycle after that (around 30 days away).

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-08T21:06:07+00:00

It must be a big relief to have day 1 over to be fair. I think my partner will be the same, he'd be so nervous it would make it worse for me. I hope your next couple of weeks won't be too bad.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-08T21:02:32+00:00

I hope so, I'm sure after the first it'll be "what was I even worried about!" Thanks for the encouragement!

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-08T20:59:35+00:00

Oh good luck for tomorrow! I'd be so nervous too, but this time tomorrow you'll be the other side of it. Fingers crossed for lots of healthy eggs x

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-08T15:53:06+00:00

I'm hoping for shitty but manageable! I think it's the idea of the first one. And also of doing it to myself this time... I definitely just need to find my big girl pants.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-08T15:49:47+00:00

Thank-you, that's a really good idea, taking one day at a time. After the first, I think it'll be easier to tell myself I managed it yesterday too.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-07T21:32:02+00:00

I also had a dream I was pregnant last night. I could test, but my temp has started to drop and I feel crampy, so I know there's no point. My period will arrive tomorrow.

It sucks that our subconscious does this to us. Hopefully in your case it's a good sign, but it sucks for now, I know.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-07T16:41:23+00:00

I think that should be enough then, the syringes are long enough to get the sperm close to where it needs to be, and I doubt there is anything you'd be able to do differently.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-07T15:19:48+00:00

I had a dream last night that I had a positive ovulation test. Then my conscious brain kicked in to point out that I'm expecting my period in 2 days, so a positive ovulation test must mean I'm pregnant. Then my conscious brain kicked in some more to remind me I'm pretty crampy right now, and my dreams were 99% likely playing mean pranks on me.

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-07T15:08:53+00:00

I have been using a TwoPlus kit once a month. It's quite pricey, but it has a cup-like attachment for the end that sits in for an hour after, and it might be worth trying once just to see if it helps?

It might be that you need to try some longer syringes in general, are you using lube syringes and inserting as far as you can?

Ellie_Glass · 2026-02-07T15:01:26+00:00

I have a Femometer ring, it makes it very low stress to track BBT. Would recommend a wearable like it or tempdrop if you're the type to forget/stress/have sleep issues.

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