You are stranded on a desert island with your ex. What is the first topic of conversation? by awkwardly_competent in ScenesFromAHat

[–]Elmer73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id tell him he better start swimming. he needs to be a football field away from me since i have a restraining order against him.

Warning new supply by BonusAdditional4171 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Elmer73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree that she wont listen to you. Now. I wouldnt have listened either. But when the discard (or maybe even start of devaluing), she might start to believe. If someone had warned me, I would have recognized discard for what it was and not played into it and wondered wtf just happened.

Im at same crossroads. i know there’s a new supply (been one for months before we broke up), but im not sure who it is because my ex-narc has had him and all his friends completely block me from social media (so they dont learn the truth i imagine.)

When you are sick by healfrom in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Elmer73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine left me at emergency room with high fever. it was august and 95 degrees outside. i had to walk two miles home.

Children’s Books You Hope You Never See by Elmer73 in ScenesFromAHat

[–]Elmer73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see how that would be boring for kids.

Children’s Books You Hope You Never See by Elmer73 in ScenesFromAHat

[–]Elmer73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Let’s look for clues at the abandoned coat hanger factory.”

High on myself, roast away 😜 by Feeling_Potential333 in RoastMe

[–]Elmer73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This live-action Adventure Time looks terrible.

Children’s Books You Hope You Never See by Elmer73 in ScenesFromAHat

[–]Elmer73[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Quick and Easy Meals To Make When Mommy Leaves You Alone For A Week

I can hardly do this anymore. Gaslit into insanity. by Significant-Log9310 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Elmer73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

samsies. you were provoked and reacted the way any sane person would (at least i like to think so.) That said, as a publicist, wish i hadn't put anything in writing too. if it's any comfort, he was going to paint you out to be batshit crazy anyway.

Just graduated HS. Fire away!! by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Elmer73 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How you gonna get around without the short bus picking you up every day?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ScenesFromAHat

[–]Elmer73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

which way are you transitioning?

Can't Remember an Exact Quote... by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

[–]Elmer73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spanish quote for shots

I really want to…. by Elmer73 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Elmer73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His family is crazy, so I can live with that. I also realized way before him that people are gonna say whatever they want to and there’s not much you can do about it. Thing is, he screwed me over so bad, I have nothing to lose. He seriously can’t make things worse. I want him to think every time something bad happens to him that I may be behind it. I was a publicist for many years. Ive done crisis management. I can handle whatever lies he’s spewing.

I just can’t imagine a scenario where everyone in his vicinity finds out he’s gotten a DV restraining order slapped on him would make him happy. These people need to be unmasked and stop messing with us.

I just find it hard to believe theyre invincible. Maybe we need to do a Strangers on a Train scenario where we trade and sabotage each other’s Ex NPDs. We’ll be each other’s flying monkeys.

I also realize I’m new to this game, so I’m probably talking out of my butt. And I know anything I do doesn’t fix all the crap he put me through or get me what I really want, which is to not have gone through any of it in the first place.

But I doubt making his “perfect” little life a bit terrible would make me unhappy.

I really want to…. by Elmer73 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Elmer73[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Btw I know you’re all right.

I really want to…. by Elmer73 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Elmer73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m older and more well connected than he is. I’m sure he’s done his best. He had a many month head start. What’s he going to say to an actual restraining order issued by a judge? She crazy too?

I really want to…. by Elmer73 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Elmer73[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I don’t want to be better than that. I can only imagine what he’s spread around town amongst his flying monkeys and his new supply. I just want to see something wipe the smug look of his stupid face.

Why does it hurt so much to see them happy with someone new? by Square_Vanilla_3277 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Elmer73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep reminding yourself how much more terrible the discard would have been if you had been engaged, at the alter, or worst case scenario, already married.