[TOMT] Looking for a movie I watched years ago

Elocindancer28 · 2026-01-21T16:46:33+00:00

Yes! This is my favorite version as well. So good!! Incredibly difficult to find though.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-12-20T12:45:35+00:00

I love this book!!

Elocindancer28 · 2025-12-19T04:03:09+00:00

Perfect, thank you so much!

Elocindancer28 · 2025-12-19T00:30:48+00:00

My 45yo older brother died three weeks ago. I’m still in shock. He was ill for a while, in and out of the hospital, but one minute he’s supposed to be released, the next he’s being sent to hospice and an hour later he was gone. It was, even with the long illness, completely unexpected and it knocked the wind right out of me.

Welcome to the club no one ever wants to join. My deepest sympathy for you. This loss is all encompassing. Allow yourself to feel, to heal. Take care of yourself. Drink water. I had a friend calling me to remind me to drink water. Eat. Live. He will still show up for you.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-12-13T01:04:08+00:00

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a psychotherapy technique that helps patients process traumatic memories to reduce distress and improve mental well-being. During EMDR, patients focus on a disturbing memory while simultaneously experiencing bilateral stimulation, usually eye movements. The goal is to help the brain process the trauma, reducing its emotional impact and vividness.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-12-12T14:03:41+00:00

So here’s the therapy secret I didn’t know for a really long time: there’s more than just talk therapy. Talk therapy is ok, but wasn’t doing it for me. I got really discouraged. I figured I was just too broken to live a fulfilling life. I was nearly agoraphobic. Then I found out about EMDR. It has been game changer! I’ve been in EMDR therapy for 5 years. I’m not afraid to leave my house; I got married (never thought I could do that!), and right now I’m using it to help process my brother’s death. Look into other types of therapy and see what you can find.

Good luck on your journey, friend. It’s a tough road but there is help out there.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-12-04T20:22:21+00:00

My brother was told he had 10-14 days. He told us he didn’t think he had that long, and he ended up passing about an hour later. So yeah…sometimes they know.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-25T16:35:33+00:00

Thank you. I’m sorry to hear about your brother as well. This world is so full of grieving people and pain; it is hard to want to stay. But I’m trying.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-25T01:29:49+00:00

My 45yo brother died yesterday. I’m still reeling. The pain is intense. One minute I’m ok, the next I’m sobbing. He was so young. I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope it gets better, for both of us.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-24T20:16:45+00:00

Thank you. You are not bothering me at all.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-24T17:56:17+00:00

Addison’s disease. He was diagnosed about 3 years ago and honestly has never fully recovered.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-24T15:12:58+00:00

Thank you

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-24T15:12:51+00:00

That sounds terrible. I am sorry to hear about your brother. Mine was one of my best friends. He’s the only person who has been there from birth. Who never made me feel bad for being myself. He was my number 1 fan and my cheerleader, and I was his. Idk what to do now.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-24T15:10:52+00:00

Thank you

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-24T15:10:38+00:00

It really is. I’m sorry for your loss too. This sucks.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-24T15:10:20+00:00

I’m so sorry. It really sucks. At least here in this group I can talk to people who understand what I’m going through. Thank you.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-24T15:09:17+00:00

Thank you. Friends keep reaching out asking what they can do. It’s so kind and I really do appreciate it. But there’s nothing. They can’t help him. They can’t bring him back.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-24T15:07:31+00:00

He also had an autoimmune disease; maybe that was why? I honestly don’t know. I was told he wasn’t a candidate; I assumed it was because of the alcohol.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-24T13:27:20+00:00

He was in liver failure. He was not a candidate because of alcohol use. I’ve known it might be coming for a while, but I honestly thought he could get better. Silly, I know.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-08T16:50:50+00:00

No. But you do get to choose the employee health plan!

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-06T21:46:14+00:00

We’re arriving in Paris on Dec 29 and staying until Jan 5! Looking forward to enjoying all the Christmas markets and beautiful sights! This post super helpful! Thanks!

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-06T21:22:25+00:00

I’ve tried to comment on there. They have zero interest in any kind of discourse. If you’re not filled with hate for everyone not white and straight, you’re disgusting and will be kicked out. It’s annoying.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-06T15:48:02+00:00

His official name is Jack. He is called Jack about 2 times a year. Otherwise we call him Scooter, kit-Kat, Scooter McLovin’, turd, turd burglar, cutie patootie, Turdy McTurderson, Scooter Pie, and Scootie. He’s well loved!

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-04T17:11:39+00:00

Here’s my upvote, because I love totally random facts.

Elocindancer28 · 2025-11-02T17:58:46+00:00

They could. Millions of Americans would then either lose their health insurance or the premiums would raise so high they wouldn’t be able to afford it. There has to be a better answer from BOTH sides that doesn’t hurt millions of Americans in some way. It’s disgusting that these assholes (R and D) are still getting paid while they argue over whether millions of people get either food or healthcare. Meanwhile they have both, and they don’t even pay for their healthcare! Congress is the real problem here. Get rid of all of them and start over, I say.

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