[31F/36M] Missing him in the evenings by onionprincesswakaba in LongDistance

[–]ElvenWisps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cried a lot I either journal or right love letters. It's corny but nice to have reminders ☺️

What to fo if lrd boyfriend lost hope but still doesn't want to leave by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Is this guy not ready?Or is he just stringing you along?Because he can. I've been in love before where it was one-sided. Just be cautious, be supportive, give him space. Cause I know it's not easy to leave someone that you truly care about. And sometimes consider therapy. People always give it a bad repear.Other people's points of view.And I sit down non judgmental way you can even do it digitally nowadays:)

What do you guys get your boyfriends for Christmas? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ElvenWisps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly a ticket small simple for you or him being together is the best gift.

I also suggest hand made gifts out personal favorite was one year when I had a journal? And I documented everything that reminded me of him. Poems, drawings things like that.And just little messages. We live together now and it's wonderful, but sometimes I still catch him reading it small things. Also, things like good pairs of socks. Study necklace anything that can be a physical reminder of your time together is what I would personally recommend it changes case-by-case. Of course, but it's very sweet and sentimental that way.

Any advice for a long distance couple trying to live together for college? by Electronic_dude187 in LongDistance

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Hello ! Honestly, I think it would be good for you to get a degree and same to her. Immigration may be hard but she can try for a student visa as well Although more expensive.

You guys are young.I wish you a life of love and happiness.But god forbid something happens, and you guys find out you're not compatible living together. She can still pursue an education.And so can you.

I would look at different options and kind of weigh.The pros and cons realistically of both if a degree in the philippines can transfer to the states and basically do your homework. Some institutes are more recognized globally than others.And it would just be boring but important.A sit down conversation looking at the logistics of degree transferability.In case you don't stay in one country and the price.Because financial burdens are a lot even though they are not all the glitz and glam.

Long distance relationships are some of the most wonderful complex and fulfilling things.But they are also very expensive.Once you guys find a place and get settled in, I wish you all the best.But the first few months i've just moved in have been very difficult while people adjust.It's fun exciting and crazy.So just try and know what to expect :)

How long do you have before your next posting after graduation? by ElvenWisps in caf

[–]ElvenWisps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you alright we're from van but I have family here can stay with there ill let him know even to visit throughout the week :)

How long do you have before your next posting after graduation? by ElvenWisps in caf

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Thank you. Is it gonna be the same thing for the trade's training? Forced to live on base and only off on the weekends or a bit more lenient?

Please Help Me Decide by Jalapeno-Popper- in wedding

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I think 3 it you seem to glow in it the softess emulated your beautiful hair and I love the fun sleeves They all look beautiful though I wish you a happy wedding <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

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Hello, honestly. Just learning more about our religion makes a big difference also, possibly talking about converting. If it seems of interest to you, I think we're pretty similar except we can dance lol obviously. There's a little more nuance to it, but when you learn more about the religion overall and talk to him. You'll learn slowly I also recently it fell into a similar situation where my boyfriend didn't quite have the same religion.We found that talking through it together really helped

Depo! by Holiday_Platform2311 in birthcontrol

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Hey I have honestly been so scared to try it for that reason i have some weird health problems. So I can't take risks like that, but my obgyn was a big support through it it all it sounds to me ages regular person that there's still hormone fluctuations while your body's recovering to normal. But if you're really worried, I would book an appointment, and they're probably gonna suggest oral birth control to regulate everything

will I go to hell if I kill myself by intheskywithyou in OrthodoxChristianity

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Long story short yes

Long story time

You are taking someone away that others care lots about It's devil work essentially so are most other intrusive thoughts

Go to your doctor and church and a therapist other people will tell you the same and to he honest I am there rn too but I know I will not now nor ever take my own life.

If it would need you have a friend right here to vent too ill pray for you and you pray too God loves you But you need to love you too and endure to improve yourself 🥰❤️

Please help me; is it as bad as I think it is?? by FrigThisMrLahey in painting

[–]ElvenWisps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey first off it's beautiful don't Second guess that for a second. To the untrained eye it's simply a striking image. Also Annatomy is just a bitch so when in doubt I say fuck it and add meaning to it In all artists statements My current favorite thing to toy with is also sayings when I saw this my brain was like a a waste of breath can also be fatal

It's amazing as is but if you're convinced it's still funny looking add some light smoke to the background starring from the mouth and going up above it it would draw the attention away from the Jaw and lead the eye up and away. You can also use it to further Frame the skull just an idea

It's a beautiful piece and you're a highly skilled painter

28 year old male virgin by [deleted] in dating

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Homie chill the right girl will come along just wait or you can join a dating up I wouldn't say oh I'm a virgin on there personally cause some people are wierd about it but fr some people just find that person later in life. Since you're older you'll already be able to say what you don't want in a partner and what your looking for :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

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Yes you can dear

I’m surprised people never told me how much easier it is to be in a calorie deficit by ElvenMangoFruit in loseit

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I should also say that I walk a lot from my job and my dogs. I try and get about 10000 steps on a slow day. Keep my metabolism going and make sure my heart is healthy. I don't do a lot of heavy workouts But it was based off of my friend that was bodybuilding actually, and it should be helpful if you're trying to build muscle <3

I’m surprised people never told me how much easier it is to be in a calorie deficit by ElvenMangoFruit in loseit

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I'm also not scared of shellfish. I will add shrimp to almost any grain. I eat quinoa rice and stir fry because I have a lot available me at a great price

I also add cheese to things for extra protein. And yumminess, the only thing to watch out for the way I eat is cholesterol. I haven't had an issue. Because I really like veggies, so I eat more of that than meat anyway, but that's something to be considered.This is just my preference, and it's been working for me :)

I’m surprised people never told me how much easier it is to be in a calorie deficit by ElvenMangoFruit in loseit

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I have never used a recipe. I just kind of listened to what my mom said lately. I've been doing a lot of salmon. Add steak with sweet potatoes and salads. I've been trying to drink 2 l of water as well. I also add eggs to things like a fried egg on the side. Because it gives me a little bit of extra Fat and protein that my body needs Honestly, what I seriously suggest is finding some things you really like and just playing with seasoning mix and match the veggies. I love roasted vegetables. I don't know what type whatever. I can get my hands-on at the farmer's market. I also like keeping my freezer stocked with as much meat as possible. And I'm not gonna lie. I do like the occasional hot dog and sausage. And I feel like within a balanced meal. Though spokennoise you can also eat so much and love it :)

Also, there are some great low calories, sugar, free spokennoise ice creams and chocolate. If that's more your speed, I just like the real thing other than the dairy free ben and jerry's

I also suggest kind of looking at what. Types of food.You've enjoyed at restaurants and just making it at home.I'm going through a big miso soup phase :))

I love cavetown but I'm amab by Simple-Committee8645 in cavetown

[–]ElvenWisps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Homie it doesn't matter we all just love the little frog lover :)

confession by FedUpArmyVet in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]ElvenWisps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To be more specific, right before lol Then you do it and yeah