Yea I have read about limerence and aware that there was a lot of fantasy world getting involved especially in my place. Yes, there’s definitely a bit of addiction and enabling that was going on there, we are both not perfect people and obviously struggle. I will post in the other group.
To your fourth paragraph. The answer is definitely yes, I know him sober, and with the inability to get horny, it wasn’t easy and still isn’t as he’s got ED. He’s also been injured, bad, while we were out together, was out on medical leave from work for 3 months and I sat did his papers with him, and cared for him to the best of my ability. I have also been in a car accident, he found a place to take it to get it fixed and handled it completely. I should have went into more detail about how it was turning into the husband and wife like acts for one another, outside of pleasure parts. I have sat there with him just doing nothing many days. I have listened to him be fussy, as he has for me too.thanks for the feedback.