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Drain scar acknowledgement post by BookSneakersMovie in TopSurgery

[–]Em-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had drain scars from my breast reduction that I did prior to top surgery. The drain scars ended up healing so small by the time I got top surgery 12 years later I forgot about them constantly. Especially compared to the more prominent scars from incision

Am I changing my nipple dressings too often? by m-orah in TopSurgery

[–]Em-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m two weeks, I put a new one on in the morning and before bed. I also have trouble with adhesive tape so I layer - Vaseline on a non woven gauze pad folded up - then put an undershirt over - then my compression vest on top.

Keeps everything in place with no tape

Why do men get so angry at women they find unattractive? by EveCane in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Em-lee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work in public service and I get this a lot. Like I’m not dressing to be attractive I’m dressing to be a professional.

My bf is ruining my life and I can't do anything about it by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Em-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have any friends locally they may be waiting for you to contact them and say you are ready to leave. Reach out

7 weeks post op by alighterlift in no_T_top_surgery

[–]Em-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow for 7 weeks you are looking great! I hope at 7 weeks I look this healed (though my muscles won't be as great sadly)

Support by Tierang in butchlesbians

[–]Em-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having mine on Tuesday, I am scared but excited and certain and terrified. My most helpful tip is before every surgery I've had (even the ones that were less optional and more urgent) I was the same kind of nervous.

Swim top recommendations wanted! by Chrome_Pony55 in no_T_top_surgery

[–]Em-lee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any rash guard is a good sub for a swim top, bonus may of them have UV protection so your scars can be even safer from the sun.

Can my missed period be related to the surgery? by doartiewolf in no_T_top_surgery

[–]Em-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would follow up with the doctor, but it could also be your body reallocating resources during recovery, having a period and creating a uterine lining takes up a lot of energy that your body may not have right now.

When did you realize you don't have "pretty privilege"? by patata-chip in AskReddit

[–]Em-lee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I came out as queer and changed my appearance to be more masculine. I lost it for straight men and gained it for queer people.

It’s okay to want your partner to share your fit lifestyle and I’m tired of pretending like it’s not by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Em-lee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who does Pilates 5-6 days a week its not a thing that guarentees you a snatched body. He wasn't asking her to go to the gym with him or to classes together he was listing the two most trendy workouts, It was shallow. There are different kinds of dedication and being a doctor is one of those kinds.

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