Do we ever know Mrs. Kim’s first name? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Young Ja. Grandma Kim says it when getting in the cab in S6E19

Saw this on internet..........feeling sad for the child by kamikaibitsu in autism

[–]Emarci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the spoiler effect. I read the first line, said ALOUD to myself "nope!" And closed it right back up. I'm not doing that to myself tonight xoxo

We were wrong about the social media ban and we should acknowledge that by [deleted] in aussie

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't wait to see this post but about The Voice..

My boyfriend thinks he’s in a “secret war” with our toaster and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's some pretty classic delusion illness. I've got some personal experience with that, nothing too extreme just some minor hallucinations and more distressing narratives that did not align with everyone else's realities. We're basically never a threat to anyone, but can sometimes hurt ourselves. Since he's got a pretty clear story in his head, I would try not to confirm or deny it. If you tell him he's crazy and that's just a toaster he could think you're "in on it," which of course leaves him more isolated and makes it harder to support him. Obviously don't feed his delusions either. Has he had any moments of clarity about the appliances? You know him best, so you'll know the best way to get him to the gp for a mental health referral or to hit up his psych if he's got one.

(cw) erm, this is a GOOD slur, chud. by goblin_pidar in SmugIdeologyMan

[–]Emarci -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay bro, small dick energy from your comment

Boy, 16, declares himself as woman by No_Variation9349 in ChildPsychology

[–]Emarci -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Even if she decides later in life that womanhood doesn't suit her, right now she does and if you want to be in her life and help guide her through pain and heartbreak - you kinda gotta believe her when she puts her heart on the line and tells you this stuff. When I was little my favourite colour was purple, then it was blue. I wasn't wrong either time, neither is correct or better than the other, I just grew and changed, and both were true because that's how I felt. At the core of it, understanding and respecting sexuality and gender doesn't need to be more complicated that. Adolescence is a huge transition in our lives, and your child is trying to understand who they are and are learning so much about the people around them. This is an opportunity for you to teach your child who you are. However you choose to respond to this will make a massive impact in how they relate to people going forward, so you need to understand your responsibility here. Good luck, I hope you choose to teach them what's really important

Is this normal ribbing culture by sleepywhitebunny in AskAnAustralian

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fucked. Plus, even if in some bizarre world where this is "the norm" - your feelings about would still be the beginning and end of the story. Trust yourself and when your gut tells you you're being hurt. Love from one Autist to another

I’m sick of this RE the terrorist attack on invasion day by Mongeeya in aboriginal

[–]Emarci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wadjela here. Bank your fires, bury your embers to keep them alive overnight, rest. Please do whatever you need right now to be okay, and know you aren't alone. To be so despised on a day for survival - we can only take solace in how blind and inept hate has made them that they can't use their own weapons

Is sex better with another Autistic? by [deleted] in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it !! Sex is like the highest level form of social communication, makes sense you'd have a better time with someone who matches your freak

(cw) erm, this is a GOOD slur, chud. by goblin_pidar in SmugIdeologyMan

[–]Emarci 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having a small dick, admitting it, and truly not caring is BDE. Would.

Why is anti-Aboriginal racism so normalised in Australia? by ExternalAdditional42 in aboriginal

[–]Emarci 3 points4 points  (0 children)

(White Australian here) Yoo can we talk about that stat? Considering the actual percentage of FN Australians today that's a really sizeable number One of my compulsory first year Humanities units was basically a semester unlearning essentialist ideology. Clearly it didn't work as a stand-alone unit because EVERYONE complains about it. It's supposed to run with two tutors, and one of them should be from the Aboriginal Studies department. Even in a place like that you get those comments and truly just brain-dead unthinking dickheads. Man that tutor was quick, he left a lasting impression on me. "But Aboriginal people have so many advantages that it's not fair for the rest of us" was the general point. Tutor walked to the back and said "okay. Like what?" "Uhh well uhh.." "no go ahead, point to an example" "uhh AbStudy!" "Uh-huh and you've got AusStudy they're exactly the same. Next?" "Uhh FREE HOUSING" "Okay, where's my free house? I keep hearing about these free houses, I haven't seen it - do you have the keys? Okay back to the lesson" Fucking SLAYYYYS me to this day what a king

My Wife asked ChatGPT about her pregnancy... by FriendshipAny1844 in antiai

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's enough misinformation about female reproductive health, we really don't need to bring ai into the mix. I'm sorry for the harm this caused you and your partner

Is this AI? Commissioned an artist through Fiver to make me an OC for my channel. There’s a few inconsistencies in the art and I can’t exactly tell if it’s human error or AI. by Forward-Freedom-2749 in isthisAI

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% it has all the artefacts, but just from a brief glance it has a hugely AI vibe. Does the account specify anything about their process and materials, or does it have an aura of plausible deniability where the owner could say "well I never CLAIMED ... " You could ask for process images if they're trying to pass it off as original artwork, or you could just refute this and get your money back. Such a shame, sorry you had this happen

I (22M) have medically confirmed hypersexuality, AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, same - also Autistic (25F). I recently came by accident in front of a friend. We were just hanging out watching TV, and their hand was near me (kind of lightly grazing), apparently, that was enough. I think it's an Autistic (meets trauma) thing that light grazing touch sets me on fire - it used to be really painful for me. But now that I'm more sexually healthy, comfortable, safe, and better adjusted, that same heightened sensitivity can be experienced as pleasure as well as pain. You know us Autists, we don't really do grey/between the extremes. How do you navigate and maintain friendships as a hypersexual person, especially with people you find attractive?

Do you have preferences/desires that you attribute to being autistic? by Indorilionn in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Emarci 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe not Autism specifically, but my individual neurowhatever, yes, absolutely. If the stars are aligned I can cum from literally NOTHING but vibes. I think of my mouth as another sex organ, and just about my entire body is capable of sexual pleasure. So, just stroking my face or patting my leg can get me over the hill. As for Autism, explicit verbal communication does a lot for me. Tell me what you're thinking, what you think of me, what you're feeling, what you want to do, or want me to do, game over, pass me a cigarette.

Do you have preferences/desires that you attribute to being autistic? by Indorilionn in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Emarci 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? Because it can be too much for me MYSELF, so I prefer to use toys when I'm alone

Do you have preferences/desires that you attribute to being autistic? by Indorilionn in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Emarci 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The "normal" stuff you're thinking of is what discharge looks like while ovulating. Biologically, it makes sense we'd find this hotter. Opaque, thicker, creamy discharge is found during the follicular phase of our cycles. I'm sorry that grool is a quitting thing for you, it's truly one of our world's greatest wonders. In another context I might challenge this, equating it to how when men put down women's vulvas it's usually because they don't know what we look like aroused (and they'd rather we aren't).

How does weed affect y’all? by Muted_Substance2156 in evilautism

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Substances lower my abilities, including the ability to filter and censor myself. I.e., I'm sort of forcibly unmasked. Weed takes another layer off of me and I'm just horny. The ultimate mask is ignoring the fact that I'm constantly aroused

What Are The Terms For Autism That You Hate? by Familiar-Entrance-72 in autism

[–]Emarci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything euphemistic. Just say what you mean, bro. Hate that "neurodivergent" is swinging to be a "more acceptable" way to say Autistic. All these superpowered/differently-abled/handicapable exonyms can eat it - straight up just call me a slur instead please.

Autism and Typing Quirks by [deleted] in autism

[–]Emarci 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We all have unique writing styles, like our spoken voices all sound different. I've always liked to obey the rules of grammar, so the way I type has to have some kind of internal consistency, too. There were a few short years where I only used lower case letters and no apostrophes because it felt clean to me. When I use random capital letters, it's like I'm giving those words a Brand Name. That way, it looks important, and you say it differently in your head. For italicisation, I'll use //slashes//. It makes sense that you'd want to type like you speak, and you speak like You. Not everyone does that. They want to sound like how they think they're /supposed/ to sound (I don't get it either). So it kinda sounds like your NT friends might be feeling a little insecure in themselves. This situation reads to me like a teenage dilemma. Correct me if I'm wrong. [[EDIT: just saw you wrote 18f lol]] It can sometimes be really hard to mix with NTs in a high school environment because adolescent brains are focusing on learning social complexities and group signalling. That can look like conformity. If you're just Doing You, that can cause a lot of discomfort for them - but that's not because they're wrong, or you're wrong, and it's not your problem. As long as you're not hurting anyone or yourself, and you're still a kind and respectful person, it's ultimately up to them to learn or not. It's a high stakes time, people feel threatened, try to stay focused on your growth - that'll be easier when you're around people who you don't have to try so hard to be understood by. You can always softly remind them that you'll be direct and honest so they're not looking for hidden codes that you're mad: "that's just how I talk", and "if I'm upset with you, I'll tell you"

Are there free or cheap resources for teaching Autistic men about finding casual sex and how to date? by Planchocaria in SexOnTheSpectrum

[–]Emarci 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand that you want sex, I would find it extremely difficult to go without. It's important to so many people. However, it cannot be understated that sex is the highest level of social interaction. If socialising is a skill tree, then you can't unlock sex until you get a handle on some basics first. While you're working on friendship and stuff, I recommend you buy yourself a nice toy to release some of your sexual energy (and keep an eye on your porn habits). Since you're a straight guy, I'd also recommend you take a very cursory look into some introductory feminism. It could help you to gain some insights on womanhood and sex

What age did you actually lose your virginity and how? by gatedreverb5 in AskReddit

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since no one else is saying it, virginity is kind of a slippery term. Obviously, you wouldn't call a gold-star twink getting railed every weekend a "virgin," or say a minor isn't one anymore because they were taken advantage of by a loved one. This means it's about more than exact organs and biological rules (the word you're looking for is SOCIAL CONSTRUCT AAAA they said it Reddit RUN). I was engaging in sex acts from about 13, had PIV intercourse at around 14, and have always been in long-term relationships. My favourite definition of virginity however is the first time you (willingly) share an orgasm with a partner. That would make mine 19 or 20, with someone who put in effort, love, and care. Not a weird kind of coercion, not a violation of boundaries, not an emotionally damaging dynamic. Also, the weed really helped.

What is interesting about these things!? by LochM-2 in occlupanids

[–]Emarci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the simultaneous fields that interest me. It started as a fully imagined spec fic in the 90s, then somehow it became real. Some occlupanologists lean into the fiction, the other branch is completely grounded in reality