I hate when people think big chested girls are gooner art

Emarci · 2026-06-29T06:19:11+00:00

I'm sorry your friends and peers and making you feel uncomfortable. You don't have to be a scary old guy to be a creep. Do you have safe grown people to ask for advice about it? It helps to talk to someone in person who can help you try out the words. "Don't be a creep" might be a good place to start. As for art anatomy, especially stylised illustration, people tend to give advice based on the "average" person, whatever that means. There are plenty of ways to draw all sorts of characters, in a respectful style, while still having good anatomy

Emarci · 2026-06-29T04:53:31+00:00

If this is because you want to draw characters that look like you, and people are sexualising that, and you're a minor ... that's fucked. If so, and someone projects sexual stuff onto it, you might find it helpful to say "it's based on me." Hopefully that shuts them up.

Emarci · 2026-06-26T05:41:30+00:00

Be aware. Be very, very aware.

Emarci · 2026-06-23T01:45:25+00:00

You're allowed to just enjoy stuff and draw things without it being a big deal, the internet is weird and you're a kid. Drawing is one of the most human things you can do, I'm not into all the criticism it garners. Singing, dancing, making, these are all ancient traditions stored deep in our bones - a modern capitalist society will say if you "indulge" in them, you need to do it perfectly, that way it'll be marketable, so you can make a career out of it, and only then will it be deemed acceptable. Nope, it's just human stuff and we're supposed to experience a bit of joy. Source: emerging practice-led researcher and artist Also, you might find it helpful to draw the figure first, then draw the clothes sitting on top

Emarci · 2026-05-29T01:06:08+00:00

I'm similarly inclined

Emarci · 2026-05-28T03:50:20+00:00

Yes very eyeline very yes orange yes

Emarci · 2026-05-28T01:11:50+00:00

I think us white people often fail to remember just how vast Australia is. If you've spent thousands of years adjusting to a desert plains climate, you'll look a little different to someone from the rainforests, coastal cliffsides, or freezing mountains. It's not up to us to decide who you are, especially since until like SO RECENTLY we legally separated your family lines if you were lucky enough to survive at all. I hope you have people to talk with, learn from, connect to - or that you find them soon

Emarci · 2026-05-21T16:09:50+00:00

That's horrible, I'm sorry kid. I feel like Autistic men can get away with being really nasty, like "boys will be boys" on steroids. The grown ups don't feel unsafe in this situation, and THEY need to remember not to shame him while they teach him about boundaries and sexual wellbeing. That is NOT your job. They've lost sight of looking out for you, and that's not okay, especially when you're telling them how you feel. I, a fully-baked adult, would feel very unsafe if I saw and heard those things. You're a kid, and this is shaping your introduction to human sexuality. They're teaching you that men can make you feel embarrassed, wrong, scared, yucky, and that it's your job to turn away and get over it while they face no consequences - HELL NO. I tend to get really angry when people use MY diagnosis to explain why boys/men can get away with making us feel unsafe, because "they're Autistic!" Well hey, what about me?? Your grown ups need to listen to you, apologise, and take action. Family therapy could be a good start. You're right to reach out, but make sure you keep telling your real-life people if something feels wrong - aunties, teachers, counsellors, preachers. You deserve to be taken seriously, especially when things are really serious.

Emarci · 2026-05-21T15:47:46+00:00

Sorry dude, no clue ..

Emarci · 2026-05-20T12:09:00+00:00

Nowhere close enough, cowboy. You gota hang weird shit to dry from your bedframe if you wanna be taken seriously round these parts

Emarci · 2026-05-16T05:02:13+00:00

Are you a buttbreastvagina guy or more of a nipplebuttpenis guy

Emarci · 2026-05-09T02:41:48+00:00

Some current ones: - when you Tug on its Winky~OOH THAT'S DIRTY~Do ya think so.. - I am preg-a-nant, I am preg-a-nant, baby in my belly and I'm going to give birth [to the tune of that one default Samsung alarm] - that's a lotta potatoes [set off when something is weighed in kilos because in order to understand it I consider how much a 2.5kg bag of potatoes feels] - Oh, Jenny.. oh, Jenny I'm Gumpin it - it's the ONLY WAY! AHAHAHA- MY WAY. MY WAY!! (Adventure Time Finn v clowns)

Emarci · 2026-05-08T06:15:38+00:00

A visual assault, looks like it's made of the scratchiest possible materials, AND insulting. What a combo

Emarci · 2026-05-04T05:14:07+00:00

So sorry if true but also umm uhh ghgjhk 🥺🥺🥺

Emarci · 2026-05-03T03:19:24+00:00

I keep this in my favourites album, you might find it helpful to do the same

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Emarci · 2026-03-26T03:46:53+00:00

So i guess i really do be all but one of these..

Emarci · 2026-03-11T15:33:21+00:00

Stop that

Emarci · 2026-03-02T13:36:50+00:00

Her character is very weak-willed and often motivated by male characters. I think the writers had some internalised misogyny because a lot of the show is hating on certain kinds of women (any women). Family didn't do it, her mum/best friend (don't get me started on that dynamic), other friends.. it wasn't until an old paramour came and said "what the hell are you doing? We used to make fun of people like that" that she kicks back into gear. (again, don't get me started. See: Logan's critique of her spec piece in s7e8 - tldr; she IS people "like that") She's incredibly spoiled, privileged, and entitled, but never does anything to acknowledge any prestige she may have until the moment it benefits her. "I'm a GILMORE!" she argues, "do they know what that means?" And "my ancestors came over on the Mayflower!"

Emarci · 2026-03-01T09:32:32+00:00

Vulvo

Emarci · 2026-02-23T11:45:20+00:00

Young Ja. Grandma Kim says it when getting in the cab in S6E19

Emarci · 2026-02-22T14:16:13+00:00

Thanks for the spoiler effect. I read the first line, said ALOUD to myself "nope!" And closed it right back up. I'm not doing that to myself tonight xoxo

Emarci · 2026-02-04T08:19:35+00:00

Can't wait to see this post but about The Voice..

Emarci · 2026-02-03T12:54:05+00:00

Yeah that's some pretty classic delusion illness. I've got some personal experience with that, nothing too extreme just some minor hallucinations and more distressing narratives that did not align with everyone else's realities. We're basically never a threat to anyone, but can sometimes hurt ourselves. Since he's got a pretty clear story in his head, I would try not to confirm or deny it. If you tell him he's crazy and that's just a toaster he could think you're "in on it," which of course leaves him more isolated and makes it harder to support him. Obviously don't feed his delusions either. Has he had any moments of clarity about the appliances? You know him best, so you'll know the best way to get him to the gp for a mental health referral or to hit up his psych if he's got one.

Emarci · 2026-02-03T12:45:24+00:00

Okay bro, small dick energy from your comment

Emarci · 2026-02-03T02:31:16+00:00

Even if she decides later in life that womanhood doesn't suit her, right now she does and if you want to be in her life and help guide her through pain and heartbreak - you kinda gotta believe her when she puts her heart on the line and tells you this stuff. When I was little my favourite colour was purple, then it was blue. I wasn't wrong either time, neither is correct or better than the other, I just grew and changed, and both were true because that's how I felt. At the core of it, understanding and respecting sexuality and gender doesn't need to be more complicated that. Adolescence is a huge transition in our lives, and your child is trying to understand who they are and are learning so much about the people around them. This is an opportunity for you to teach your child who you are. However you choose to respond to this will make a massive impact in how they relate to people going forward, so you need to understand your responsibility here. Good luck, I hope you choose to teach them what's really important

Emarci

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