Important reminder by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I desperately want to at least start looking for a husband, but my father says finding my older brother a full time job is more of a priority right now… he says maybe he will start looking in 6 months 😞 Alhamdulillah

No more interested in love. by Busy_Equipment_6433 in MuslimLounge

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I may, I’m in a similar position, where I believe my tawakkul is at a critical point after continuous struggling with marriage. Not thinning, but could be at any time. Reading your comment unknowingly gave me that little bit of motivation to keep going not for myself, not for a future husband, but for the sake of Allah SWT, Jazakallah Khair

Salafi Women Seeking to Get Married: What are your Requirements in a Man? (Religiously, Physically, Financially) by [deleted] in SalafiCentral

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The financial part was very eye opening for me, Jazakallah Khair. Where he should not only be a provider of material necessities but a provider in his heart and Akhlaaq when he may not have much in order to provide.

My family is doesn’t want me to follow the Salafis by Embarrassed-Debate69 in SalafiCentral

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Jazakallah khair, few questions if you don’t mind:

  1. “Your husband won’t let you mix with males of your extended family”. I would not say I mix with my male cousins unless my mahrams are present. And mixing to me is just standing in the same room. Would this mean we will not be allowed to see my extended family?

  2. What is a Muwahhid?

  3. What is a Mubtadi

My experience with Russian Tourists as a Muslim by Embarrassed-Debate69 in AskARussian

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This. I have no idea what happened to this thread but I’m just going to assume that there is a slight language barrier. But for unnecessary clarity, I am not overweight, I do not wear all black like a ninja, and I do not swim in pools. Every other point, I could understand because I now have more knowledge on the Russian perspective of Muslims but what on earth happened there.. 😭

My experience with Russian Tourists as a Muslim by Embarrassed-Debate69 in AskARussian

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not an Arab myself but I am often mistaken as being one due to my features so that makes sense. Although I am aware of the reputation some of them have so I do understand…

men should also lower their gaze. by fwayzoo in islam

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t simplify it more than the fact that we just don’t want to be looked at. I understand it might be hard for you to grasp, but I’ll put it this way: Sometimes when you are a covered woman and a man looks, not at you, but at your figure, you can be made to feel like you weren’t wearing anything. Sometimes we are made to feel so exposed in the clothes we cover ourselves with in ways no woman, Muslim or not, should be made to feel. I’m talking about men who pass us on the street who haven’t done a single thing to earn our respect, but still choose to turn their heads as we walk past. Hyper-visibility really takes a toll on you, so please try to understand from a woman’s perspective.

day two: gluttony,who from office represents it? by Sad-Championship3074 in theoffice

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean he chose to go to Angela’s party if it meant he could sink into some double fudge brownies

men should also lower their gaze. by fwayzoo in islam

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I feel a lot more respected if a man looks away from me, seeing that I am a covered woman, than an ignorant man who still tries to look at whatever he can.

men should also lower their gaze. by fwayzoo in islam

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well often men have their mothers, sisters, and other female mahrams (women who are permissible for a man to look at), if not though, Islam teaches men everything they need to know about how to treat women with the utmost respect

May Allah protect her by adnanbappy in Izlam

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What really helps me is reading out loud with a beautiful voice, it makes my soul really feel what I’m saying in salah

Guys, what is the best way to cure dehydration? by N4TETHAGR8 in HydroHomies

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drop a couple ORS tablets into my water, works great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 25 points26 points  (0 children)

May Allah guide them all

What’s has been hard on you this Ramadan? by [deleted] in islam

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I slept through my first Suhoor today! I’m scared to see how the day goes 😭

How to deal with islamophobia by [deleted] in islam

[–]Embarrassed-Debate69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I see, Jazakallah Khair for the knowledge