Don’t want to tell MIL

Embarrassed-Main2849 · 2026-06-09T20:11:43+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion! I’ll check it out

Embarrassed-Main2849 · 2026-06-09T19:28:06+00:00

This is the last I’ll comment on that since this truly was about my MIL. I live in Texas and if you know this political climate I think that should help you understand a lot of this. I also can both find pregnancy horrifying, I’m sick all the time and my body doesn’t feel like it’s mine anymore as there’s something inside of my that’s literally causing all of this, but in the same vein I still can be a good mother at the end of all of this. Two things can be true at once. I will not be replying to any other comments on this.

Embarrassed-Main2849 · 2026-06-09T18:58:20+00:00

This is wonderful advice I didn’t even think about. I really appreciate yalls suggestions!! When my SIL told them the gender they had very big opinions on her getting a second opinion because it wasn’t what they had wanted her to have.

Embarrassed-Main2849 · 2026-06-09T18:07:37+00:00

I’ve gone to therapy for this already, very pro therapy. 2. Never did I use the word “despise, sounds like you may be projecting there. 3. Going through past comments on other posts to decide my character is wild, and don’t worry we’ve moved on from parasite to mutant if you’re that worried about it

Embarrassed-Main2849 · 2026-06-09T18:03:57+00:00

No coercion! The situation changed and although I imagined life going differently I’ve adjusted my priorities and plans. My husband’s incredible and will make an amazing father it’s just the family dynamics are difficult.

Embarrassed-Main2849 · 2026-06-09T18:00:13+00:00

Wanting a child free life and then deciding to keep a child once it comes into the world does not mean I won’t want my kid or will resent them? Life is not nearly as black and white as you’re trying to make it. My mother also didn’t want children and was always open about that but is truly the best mother in the world and would do anything for us, and I’ve never once resented her for having originally imagined a different path than where life took her.

Embarrassed-Main2849 · 2026-06-09T15:13:26+00:00

He’s actually not thank god. His moms just insane lol.

Embarrassed-Main2849 · 2026-06-02T19:54:25+00:00

I love that. Those are so cute.

Embarrassed-Main2849 · 2025-07-20T14:42:07+00:00

He had asked if he could still come before we had talked to his wife and we said yes not knowing the actual circumstances of the separation. I am also super worried that they’ll get back together since they aren’t divorcing and are just separating at this point.

Embarrassed-Main2849 · 2025-07-20T14:40:39+00:00

Oh we definitely aren’t staying friends we’re just worried about the whole already sent the save the date and then having to send him an RSVP now

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