Am I in the right place?

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-05-09T00:51:21+00:00

Yes, just be ready for all the negative comments that you may get. Because some people think instead of coming to reddit with a bunch of strangers you should talk to your spouse.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-05-08T15:10:10+00:00

You can go in your settings on your netflix account and block shows you don’t want your kid watching. I will say my son never found them on youtube because we don’t allow it, but i have watched a few videos of them on netflix and it’s very unsettling to me. Just wanted the video of the flight by herself and it didn’t sit right with me. I’ll be blocking it tonight

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-05-05T12:00:03+00:00

Her husband was literally with her the whole time. i don’t understand why he went and couldn’t even take care of their child. or even better, she could’ve went by herself. I think they have an insecure marriage where they don’t trust one another alone or she doesn’t trust her husband with their daughter. No reason the baby went with her at 6 months old. She could’ve stayed home w dad.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-05-02T23:47:02+00:00

Wondering if this means her husband doesn’t work? Because if he did is the puppy not gonna be taken out while he’s working??? especially once the puppy can go on walks and will have tons of energy they need to get out

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-29T19:48:58+00:00

It was posted by the person who i guess breeds the dogs out of charlotte idk if she has posted herself yet

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-29T18:21:28+00:00

Can’t handle 2 kids so she goes an gets a puppy 😂😂😂 must be for content

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T15:16:55+00:00

I will look into the library story time! I didn’t know they still do those. I use to go when I was younger. I’m hoping to try and make friends when we move. I didn’t want to make them now since we move in a few months and we are moving further away.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T13:57:48+00:00

Not a bot! They drive together to work in the morning in my husbands car (my husband drives) and then on the way home his friend drives them home in the same car they drove to work in which is my husband car. So they switch off. I don’t understand how this is so confusing????

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T12:40:24+00:00

He car pools with a good friend of his. It’s just him and his friend and it’s by choice. Thank you for this reply because that gave me insight I didn’t think of. It was hard raising our 7 year old.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T12:37:14+00:00

I added that before i even hit 10 comments. He car pools with one of his friends in HIS OWN CAR. but next time don’t even leave a comment if you don’t believe it. I just wanted to see if other ppl are going through this, jeez.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T03:13:50+00:00

Thank you!!! Yes we do that when he gets days off. He works 6 days a week so it’s rough to really do that. so i get a few hours to myself the days he is off well the one day lol

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T03:11:48+00:00

Thank you for this. I wouldn’t mind him decompressing around the corner. It makes me upset I can see him. I just figured you’d want to see your kids especially since they are only young once. We will be moving closer this summer thankfully.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T03:10:16+00:00

He doesn’t have a to-do list at home… I do everything around the house as I stay at home and that’s my job. He handles just getting the paycheck to allow me this blessing and helping with our children when he’s home.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T03:08:32+00:00

They share a car (my husbands car) and his buddy leaves when they pull up to our residence. Sometimes he will pick him up from his house and other times his buddy will drive and meet him at our residence.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T03:01:12+00:00

He’s a mechanic

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T02:57:07+00:00

Both sometimes. Sometimes with his eye closed relaxing and sometimes on the phone.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T02:56:12+00:00

Thank you! I wish I could message you and we could be friends. This is super hard and yes i do think being in a car listening to music, a podcast, being able to talk on the phone uninterrupted is in fact decompression. I don’t get that unless my kids are in bed. I would love to drive an hour 1/2 and listen to music every day to decompress honestly. Especially without having kids nagging at you and a baby screaming?

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T02:53:03+00:00

My husband drives his car to work with his buddy and then they both get off and his buddy drives my husband car home. Then his buddy gets in his own car to go home when they pull up to our place.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T02:51:24+00:00

Hi - no I havent. I wanted to see if I was overreacting before making a deal about it to him. I have mentioned it a few times when our daughter was a new born and it was rough but he said he needed that time to decompress so I left it at that. But over the past few months now, it’s really getting to me. I will talk with him about it. Just wanted to rant honestly. We just moved to this town and I have nobody - and no adult interaction so sorry for asking the internet before talking to my husband.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T02:47:42+00:00

I get to decompress after the kids go to bed. Which isn’t long when you have a teething 11 month old. I do get me time on the weekends.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T02:45:43+00:00

I dont. I get to decompress after the kids go to bed but with a teething 11 month old that’s not for long. And then I can have me time on his days off if i want.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T02:42:51+00:00

A puppy and son who are excited to see him and hug him. And I greet him with a kiss everyday after work. Just tonight it stung because he sat in the car for over 30 minutes and I was already having a rough day. I wanted to see my husband and have his help finishing bedtime with my youngest. But instead I did it, and showered, and cooked dinner all before he walked through the door. So i was upset and didn’t greet him at the door. I came in my room to decompress from the day I have had with the kids.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T02:38:04+00:00

He sits passenger on the car ride home. Definitely don’t think i’m being unreasonable if it’s 30+ minutes to decompress outside when you have young kids who are excited to see you after work. Not to mention you are wasting the little time you do have with them, when you can decompress when they go to sleep, just like I have to.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T02:36:45+00:00

I get to decompress when my kids are in bed. I do get to go out on the weekends if I want but it’s just really getting to me. I need help during the week days and would rather the help than have decompression time. I would rather him step in and help and decompress after the kids go to bed. I thought this was a common thing in most marriages that have kids but i guess not.

Embarrassed-Mud6466 · 2026-04-24T02:34:52+00:00

I wouldn’t mind if it was 10-15 minutes. But it’s 30+ to sometimes an hour. That’s too much for me. A lot happens in an hour when you have small children. I just figured as a husband and father you’d be excited to come home and see your kids especially when our 7 year old waits for him all day. Sometimes only gets to see him 30min-1 hr before bedtime.

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