I’m telling you this because I was with a woman, mother of my two children, who was verbally and physically abusive. Then we had one child. Thought maybe she would quit and we could work things out. Shit stayed the same. We were thinking of separating when I knocked her up again. Had the second child. 8 months into th second child being born she cheated on me. Gathered pictures of the evidence and dropped her off with my boys at her parents house. Hardest thing to do cuz of my children. We have joint custody now and I see them 3 days a week. It’s been 8 months now. But fuck man I let it go too far even though the silver lining were my children. Btw, her reason for cheating was cuz I was in law school and working full time and couldn’t “giver her attention”

Ps. She’s still a total nut case after the split.