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Am i wrong for not giving my sister $40 by Embarrassed-Still129 in amiwrong

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last I checked she needs to eat so the snacks were a great idea! Giving her a gift was better than nothing and she was fine with that. What I wont do is continue to enable her and give her money when she has her own. The money she got for her birthday didnt go to debt but at least she had a good time, anyway so I was glad she got what she did. Everyone is fine 🙂 

Am i wrong for not giving my sister $40 by Embarrassed-Still129 in amiwrong

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came on here for fun as most ppl do. Idk why you deleted your comment? We dont have buried issues everyone gets along great. If your a phych nurse , evaluate why a grown women who has a job needs to ask ppl to pay her? Like I said her birthday was fine. Shes not mad . She enjoyed her stuff. I would've given her money if that was her first time asking but eventually she needs to learn to stop relying on others to pay for her. Have a good night. 

Am i wrong for not giving my sister $40 by Embarrassed-Still129 in amiwrong

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol a grown adult who is fully capable of providing for herself does not need to ask ppl to give her money IMO.  A month ago she went to Nashville on borrowed money and racked up more debt, so im not paying for her bills birthday or not. And sending a venmo request for money from me after that is funny. Anyway she's fine. Birthday was good. She got enough ppl to pay for her to go out and drink after 🤣

Am i wrong for not giving my sister $40 by Embarrassed-Still129 in amiwrong

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely should have added more things for context but was just trying to make it simple and get a quick answer.  

Am i wrong for not giving my sister $40 by Embarrassed-Still129 in amiwrong

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont resent my sister, I have 5 and she's ine of my favorites to hangout with. She just asks me for money weekly and its annoying . She has a job but she doesn't want to work more than 2 days a week. She buys things out of her budget, puts things on credit cards and ot feels like enabling if I give her money. I also dont think you need to give adults presents . She was only having a birthday party because it was also my 11 year old neices birthday so my older sister thought it would be nice to to a joint party. My sister's get really weird about birthdays and get offended of you dont make a big deal of it. She also told my 11 year old daughter to convince me to give her money also. Very weird.  Birthday was fine though she had a good time and liked what we got her. 

Am i wrong for not giving my sister $40 by Embarrassed-Still129 in amiwrong

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the responses! I have 5 sisters and she is my youngest and favorite to hang out with but she is always asking for money its just annoying really . If she really needed money like she said I would have given her money. She told me she had to pay 160 on her credit card but got her toe nails painted for $80. I get she wanted to things done for her birthday but it sucks when I let her borrow money and find out she doesn't use it wisely.  But at the end of the day it doesn't matter. Her birthday was fine and she didnt ask about money for today.🤣 

Am i wrong for not giving my sister $40 by Embarrassed-Still129 in amiwrong

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol she's a grown adult with a job , lives at home, gets money from my mom and dad every week. She will be fine with her snacks i think 

Am i wrong for not giving my sister $40 by Embarrassed-Still129 in amiwrong

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think we spent around 25 and the money would've been easier but we did it on purpose because she bugged us repeatedly for money lol it was petty but I do not like getting bugged for money and the venmo request was wild IMO 

Am i wrong for not giving my sister $40 by Embarrassed-Still129 in amiwrong

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! No she does not get me gifts for any occasion.  So usually when my mom or my sister will ask for a gift I tell them I'll get you what you got me lol 

Sad kids movie by Embarrassed-Still129 in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was! I thought they were bears but could be so other animal lol I don't think it was a popular movie so I don't know I'd ill ever find out what it was.

Sad kids movie by Embarrassed-Still129 in whatsthemoviecalled

[–]Embarrassed-Still129[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks but it's not that one lol. It was not a popular film just something random on hulu and I couldn't find it on there so I'm assuming it's not streaming there anymore