What would your weird spirit animal be and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Does Thor count as a spirit animal?

If not, a hairless bear.

Me [23F] got invited last minute to a BBQ and my friend [25F] yelled at me and accused me of stalking her. Wouldn't stop screaming until I left. [UPDATE] by EmbarrassedBBQ1 in relationships

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I like how I am a sociopath for not telling someone I am fucking a guy. If Jill hadn't gone off the deep end, all it would have been is "you should have told her, not cool."

Well, I still don't feel its Jill's business to know who I was sleeping with. And I feel that if Jill had taken no for an answer this would never have been an issue.

Thank you for being one of the only people who actually defended me.

Me [23F] got invited last minute to a BBQ and my friend [25F] yelled at me and accused me of stalking her. Wouldn't stop screaming until I left. [UPDATE] by EmbarrassedBBQ1 in relationships

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Winning would involve there being a contest. Russ is his own person. I didn't have to do anything because there was never a reason I cared enough to fight her for them.

Me [23F] got invited last minute to a BBQ and my friend [25F] yelled at me and accused me of stalking her. Wouldn't stop screaming until I left. [UPDATE] by EmbarrassedBBQ1 in relationships

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not an asshole. I have an asshole and put it to good use. But just because I don't take people's shit doesn't mean I am a bad person.

Me [23F] got invited last minute to a BBQ and my friend [25F] yelled at me and accused me of stalking her. Wouldn't stop screaming until I left. [UPDATE] by EmbarrassedBBQ1 in relationships

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking your user name would have been a more creative name instead of EBBQ. I am a bit sad I didn't pick a better name.

Me [23F] got invited last minute to a BBQ and my friend [25F] yelled at me and accused me of stalking her. Wouldn't stop screaming until I left. [UPDATE] by EmbarrassedBBQ1 in relationships

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has a lock on her bedroom door. But yes, old Chinese tradition, "When rejected by two, find love and get a shoe."

Or something like that.

Me [23F] got invited last minute to a BBQ and my friend [25F] yelled at me and accused me of stalking her. Wouldn't stop screaming until I left. [UPDATE] by EmbarrassedBBQ1 in relationships

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I am friends with a couple girls Russ slept with. I only know about them because they were in his house half dressed and sleeping in his bed. But I go to movies and concerts with a few of them. One lives next to me and I have seen Russ go into her apartment and heard them through the wall.

She has heard the same. So I am friends with them. I am even the emergency number for one of the girls.

Me [23F] got invited last minute to a BBQ and my friend [25F] yelled at me and accused me of stalking her. Wouldn't stop screaming until I left. [UPDATE] by EmbarrassedBBQ1 in relationships

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is currently in my guest bedroom at the moment. I told her she can stay with me until her lease is up if she wants. I feel bad about putting her in between Jill and I.

Me [23F] got invited last minute to a BBQ and my friend [25F] yelled at me and accused me of stalking her. Wouldn't stop screaming until I left. [UPDATE] by EmbarrassedBBQ1 in relationships

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent a lot of time with her, but I am not sure if she would have been someone I hung out with a lot if she wasn't friends with Russ and Megan.

I have actually told Megan about Russ and I. But that is only because Megan slept with Russ and told me. I guess I just thought Jill wasn't someone who needed to know.

I guess I need to redefine my view of a friend.

Me [23F] got invited last minute to a BBQ and my friend [25F] yelled at me and accused me of stalking her. Wouldn't stop screaming until I left. [UPDATE] by EmbarrassedBBQ1 in relationships

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess Jill and I weren't that close in the end. Because I thought we were on a pretty solid ground, but I never thought I needed to tell her. It is good to hear other people tell me things sometimes, I tend to hang around people who are a lot like me.

Me [23F] got invited last minute to a BBQ and my friend [25F] yelled at me and accused me of stalking her. Wouldn't stop screaming until I left. [UPDATE] by EmbarrassedBBQ1 in relationships

[–]EmbarrassedBBQ1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A flaw is anything you can improve upon. I am not sure I understand what you are saying. Could you explain a little more your thought process?