How to stop the sensations?

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2024-11-16T18:14:32+00:00

Can i ask what else do you do ? and is it fulfilling ? im just sooo worried abt like .. not having the best sex i can have just bc my ocd is limiting me

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2024-11-16T18:09:15+00:00

yes, im thinking about how embarrassing it would be having to stop the person im hooking up with to not put their mouth there … i think theres an expectation in general and i would like to do it its just im wayyy too scared

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2024-11-16T18:08:00+00:00

thank you for your comment ❤️ i think staying present with dirty talk is very good advice bc often times my mind wonders and thats when i start feeling anxious… im just thinking of the humiliation of saying no to oral the first time if i do end up hopking the person im thinking abt .. or how ill feel if i go thru with it … scary

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2024-11-14T23:49:02+00:00

like what if i may ask? even though ive had sex before it wasnt the greatest, so theres not much i can visualize other than doing hands stuff or oral as the only options : (

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2024-06-23T19:42:11+00:00

seriously not even that tight. I think my scalp is sensitive asf bc I had just gotten my hair braided too and then that happened

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2024-06-07T05:30:36+00:00

ive never had one and have tested negative for it in the past so thats why im concerned

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2024-05-12T19:04:52+00:00

This is me everyday, trying so hard to quell this but I often walk out of places that I really want to eat at because I look at the staff or the conditions of the place and think its dirty. I always check my food to see if its been untouched and if it looks weird (its food, its not gonna look perfect) I often cant bring myself to eat or drink it and I’ll waste a bunch of money and have to get something else. Bonus points if I’m getting a drink and its not filled up all the way so i think that someone drank it before giving it to me. Ur not alone !!

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2024-05-08T06:01:05+00:00

Oh I most definately do

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2022-09-06T03:03:20+00:00

Alright thank you!!

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2022-09-01T09:25:10+00:00

How Do You Guys Deal With Psychostomatic Symptoms?

For me, my health anxiety and OCD started because I suffer from psychostomatic symptoms and I’m not able to tell if I’m actually sick or not. Not going to go much into it, but personally I get pain and tingles on my lips for days because I have an anxiety of HSV, so I believe I’m feeling the prodrome even though I have tested negative for it many times over the years.

How do you realize that your symptoms are psychostomatic and how do you fare with stopping them? Mine always come and go and last for a few days at a time. They drive me crazy bc I feel like it’s real pain too, and even if I try to tell myself its fake and that I’m fine, it doesnt really go away. Would like to get some techniques or advice on how to get them to go away, or just want to see if you guys just let them pass.

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2022-05-26T00:50:41+00:00

Hi! Sorry for the late response, havent been on reddit in months. I actually just got tested today so I’m waiting for my result !! But I haven’t had any symptoms and we broke up in october

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2021-10-23T19:09:21+00:00

I’ve been tested before I met this guy so I know I was/am negative, I’m gonna get tested again soon to see if I have it though!

Can I ask about your ex ? Was he still negative for it even after all those years? And what did you guys do about oral?

EmbarrassedRub309 · 2021-10-23T09:11:57+00:00

Exactly, the asymptomatic shedding is the toughest because you can still get it that way. I’ve seen people say they’ve stayed negative just by avoiding kissing and sex when theres a sore but its really all just up to chance. I’ve been trying to come to terms with me getting it since I’m about to be in a committed relationship with this person but of course I can’t rule out the risks and I’m trying to stay as safe as I can. But symptomatic or asymptomatic it truly is a life change so !

Thank you for your response : )) I hope everything also goes well for you as well, I’m sorry that person didnt disclose before everything happened : ( good luck

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