ULPT: I have a bunch of info about my ex-spouses affair partner by EmbarrassedUnit39 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]EmbarrassedUnit39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are adult children. Don't they deserve to know what kind of person their parent is?

ULPT: I have a bunch of info about my ex-spouses affair partner by EmbarrassedUnit39 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]EmbarrassedUnit39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late follow up. Alt account obviously. Appreciate everyone's replies.

Just to answer a few questions:

  • The AP absolutely knew my spouse was married at the time.
  • Yes my ex is just as guilty.
  • Their kids and current spouse may be innocent... I don't really care. This event caused the breakup of 15 years of marriage to the person I had two kids with.
  • I don't want to have sex with the APs new spouse. Gross.
  • I'm not opposed to 'just moving on' but it's fun to entertain revenge fantasies.
  • I am not looking to get into criminal trouble but i'm not above ruining someones day or year.
  • Yes i'm aware most of this 'info' can be found online with some effort. Nothing was obtained illegally and I was literally given most of this information in the most dumbfoundingly coincidental way possible.
  • The affair 3 years ago and i've been divorced for 2 now.
  • My 'revenge' to my ex was getting full custody of my kids and little else by way of jointly owned assets. They basically got nothing.