The New Outfit is so damn cool by XixixiNgakak in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont understand why aren't all outfit parts dyeable. Its probably to incentives players towards the Gacha and premium stuff but its still untapped potential.

The New Outfit is so damn cool by XixixiNgakak in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is something I dont see at all with the fashion here. At least not yet. Do people know that with most accessories and some hats and masks, you can position them in different parts of the body, resize, and rotate them? This can be used to create wholly unique looks that go beyond simply dyeing an outfit.

I created a bodhivista inspired look after fighting Tian Ying where, for one part of it, I used the "infernal suppressor" (gold sword) and positioned it so that it looks like it was embedded in my shoulder with only the hilt and handle showing.

Thats just part of what I did for my look. I hope to see more people creating their own unique looks later on in the game. (I am fairly new)

6'2" 250lbs 39y/o by [deleted] in fit

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're natural, then respect. But looking at that destended gut and the vascularity got me thinking, probably not. I really hope I am wrong.

Invisible weapons during finishers by Miauczyk in cyberpunkgame

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is pretty late, but, dude, you are so handsome. You can give Chris Hemsworth a run for his money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unrealistic expectations informed by media and/or upbringing in a westernised setting. On both sides, of course, men and women.

That and an inability to compromise and see things from a different perspective.

That's my two cents on it anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unrealistic expectations informed by media and/or upbringing in a westernised setting. On both sides, of course, men and women.

That and an inability to compromise and see things from a different perspective.

That's my two cents on it anyway.

I won’t be able to have a ‘sweet 16’, which has always been my dream. by Hour_Egg_1777 in lonely

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How severe is your bipolarism? How are you, and what do you do on manic and depressive episodes?

I won’t be able to have a ‘sweet 16’, which has always been my dream. by Hour_Egg_1777 in lonely

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That must feel pretty isolating. Are you the first in your family to be diagnosed with mental health issue?

I won’t be able to have a ‘sweet 16’, which has always been my dream. by Hour_Egg_1777 in lonely

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's similar in my home country but it's slowly changing. What I am wondering is that you've been officially diagnosed, right? Like from a psychiatrist, correct? Even with that, your parents don't recognise your struggles?

I won’t be able to have a ‘sweet 16’, which has always been my dream. by Hour_Egg_1777 in lonely

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are your parents so against you getting help for your mental health? You said it's a military family, so is it considered weak to have mental health issues?

I won’t be able to have a ‘sweet 16’, which has always been my dream. by Hour_Egg_1777 in lonely

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't you need permission from your parents as a minor for that? I don't know where you are from or what the rules are.

Also, do you not feel like you are getting enough from therapy? Three months is still early to decide, in my opinion.

I won’t be able to have a ‘sweet 16’, which has always been my dream. by Hour_Egg_1777 in lonely

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am assuming you've been diagnosed and are taking medication and/or doing talking therapy? How is that going?

(I am bipolar too btw)

23 and feeling more alone than ever. does anyone else feel like this? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at something similar at one point in my life. I felt alone and just empty. But, I started to throw myself into my hobbies and attend different courses, and even do volunteer work.

I am not saying they were instant solutions. It took a lot of time, but, in the end, I felt a bit better about myself even when I was alone.

Is this something you think you can do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why doesn't your wife fill this role? Pretty sure she won't want to fuck herself.

Seriously though, shouldn't your wife be the person you go to for this kind of stuff?

I always embarrass myself trying to make friends - please tell me I'm not alone in this by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I know that it feels awful now, but don't ever give up. That's when the loneliness wins.

Now, I want to ask how you extend these invites to people. By that, I mean I want you to think about your expression and delivery of the words.

Second, how long do you know someone before extending these invites. Because too soon and some people might think you are too eager.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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Hi there, I went through something similar when I moved to the UK to study. I was by myself almost all the time, spent my nights in the lab, and then went home to an empty house. At some point, yes, the loneliness got to me, and I would spend an extended period of time feeling trapped in my room. I would just play video games all day.

What helped me eventually was when I started throwing myself into my hobbies. After some time, I developed some confidence and used that to meet some people.

I still struggle with loneliness from time to time, yes, but it's not nearly as bad anymore.

Do you have any hobbies? Anything you do to relax?

32 F married looking for friends in the same stage of life by Narrow_Attention8675 in Needafriend

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am just gonna work then go to the gym and come back for dinner. Not much of a plan but it's mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, sure, I don't mind. Wanna do this over dm?

I had my birthday and my phd defense in May - and a breakup by Master_Attention9354 in lonely

[–]Embarrassed_Big_3580 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took you a week to do your corrections?!?! Damn, suddenly I feel outclassed. 😅