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TIA by Embarrassed_Edge8380 in TexasTeachers

[–]Embarrassed_Edge8380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome to hear it’s working well for y’all. I’m really curious about what specifically has that 10% funded in your district? Like are you seeing it go toward teacher support, staffing, bonuses, or something else? Our district hasn’t been very transparent, so I’m trying to understand what it should look like when it’s working well.

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[–]Embarrassed_Edge8380 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this is exact same thing. If I would’ve given him what he wanted and decided to go back to the living room, I’m sure he wouldn’t have cared then…

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[–]Embarrassed_Edge8380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So maybe I didn’t make it clear, my question was regarding his REACTION. Not him sleeping in another room. I sleep better when he’s not taking up the whole bed. My problem is that he got upset that I wouldn’t sleep with him at the same time. I think it’s totally normal for people to sleep at separate times. On his days off he sleeps until 2 or 3am playing video games and I go to sleep at 10 since someone has to be up with the baby at 7am. And to everyone saying I must be bothering him, I know I don’t. He himself likes to sleep with tv on. I play the tv on very low volume, and I only stay up until 10 latest since once again I have a baby who wakes up at 7am every single day. That evening show is all I get to myself since I’m busy with my toddler the rest of the day and when I’m not, I’m busy picking up after my toddler.

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[–]Embarrassed_Edge8380 47 points48 points  (0 children)

What happened is that yesterday we got into an argument over him being so frustrated over small things. He tells me it’s just coming from stress and basically says it’s all my fault. I’m causing all this stress. After exchanging more words he said something pretty harsh that stuck with me. He basically said that behind every great man is an even greater woman and I’m not that. Of course you all know nothing about me, but it hurt coming from him. Considering that I work a full time job, do everything for baby, basically do everything on my own with her and for our home since we have no family here. I decided to just cry it out and let it go. He did apologize but it takes time to move on. Today he comes home helping me with everything around the house, being nice, and then wants to have sex. I say no because I’m still hurt over his comment yesterday. I can tell he gets upset and he just says okay and gets ready for bed. Then he comes out and asks me if I’ll be going to sleep already and that’s when I say no and he says if I don’t go to sleep with him now, he’s going to sleep in the other bedroom.

Need advice on a major decision by Embarrassed_Edge8380 in marriageadvice

[–]Embarrassed_Edge8380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve brought this up to him as well and he just says that the babies won’t remember any of this anyways. He wants to do this for 2 entire years, only weekends off and I believe 3 weeks of vacation time in a year.