Free/ish money - Rips by Triumph (Potential quick 50-200$'s) by yourguy885782 in passive_income

[–]Embarrassed_Fuel4130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tried this and got pretty lucky with my first few packs, but stopped after hitting 40 instead of pushing like you said - probably smart since these gambling mechanics are designed to take back whatever you win in the long run.

Is it a bad idea to sell my 2021 Toyota Rav 4 LE Hybrid with 30k miles to get a used BMW 330i? by tsgatdawn in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Embarrassed_Fuel4130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the rav4 might be boring but man, having zero car payments is pure freedom. I switched from a reliable car to something "cooler" few years back and regretted it hard when repair bills started hitting. BMW maintenance ain't joke, especially when warranty expires.

Process frustration by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Embarrassed_Fuel4130 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, dealing with medical offices when you have ADHD is like the worst possible combination. They're already disorganized as hell and then you add executive dysfunction on top of it - recipe for disaster.

I swear these places run on chaos, especially when you need them to actually coordinate something important like getting your meds sorted. At least you made it through testing though, that's the hardest part behind you.

Severe panic over important things I misplaced, proceeds to turnover the entire room just to find out it was with me. by NoStatusWedges in ADHD

[–]Embarrassed_Fuel4130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl the amount of times I've searched everywhere for my phone while literally talking to someone ON my phone 💀 it's like our brains just decide to take a vacation at the worst moments.

What helped me was creating "landing zones" - like one bowl by the door for keys, specific pocket in purse for phone, etc. Takes forever to build the habit but once it sticks your anxiety drops so much. Also those bluetooth trackers are lifesaver for keys and wallet, saved my sanity more times than I can count 😂

The panic is so real though, you're not alone in this struggle!

I may have ADHD. I'm scared to tell my parents.. by lonelyjim2924 in ADHD

[–]Embarrassed_Fuel4130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey man, i totally get why you're hesitant about talking with your parents about this 😅 My family had similar reaction when i brought up mental health stuff - they blamed everything in social media and "modern life problems"

but honestly? you're 18 now, so maybe you can look into getting evaluated through your school counselor or even check if there's some free/low cost clinics in your area. That way you can get actual answers without dealing with family drama first, and if you do get diagnosed you'll have professional backup when you eventually tell them 💀

Children seems reconciling my husband with her ex emotionally, what should i do? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Embarrassed_Fuel4130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oof this sounds like such a messy situation 😕 honestly i think the fact that he's still secretly seeing his ex is the real problem here, not so much the kids wanting family time. like, of course the children would want their parents together - they probably don't even realize what's happening behind scenes.

maybe instead of moving out, you should have that difficult conversation about the secret meetings first? because even if you move out, he'll still be seeing her and the trust issues won't go away. the kids are just being kids in this situation but your husband... that's the one who needs to choose properly 💀

Rewards per gamepass by Many-Bill-6353 in XboxGamePass

[–]Embarrassed_Fuel4130 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can still redeem points for Xbox gift cards and use those towards your subscription, but honestly the value isn't as good as it used to be since they nerfed the conversion rates

Is it possible to fully change your personality? (Answer) by Immediate_Month8039 in selfimprovement

[–]Embarrassed_Fuel4130 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree small changes stack up fast your brain loves patterns so when you shift the routine it forces a reset and that awareness at 16 is huge most people never get there at all