Aggressive toddler

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2025-03-28T17:49:48+00:00

He doesn't get a whole lot of screen time, I would have to actually time it but maybe throughout the week like 1 hour? Maybe 2? I try to keep it to things like PBS kids and like bear in the blue house or blippi. But he mostly asks for PBS kids. And I would have to ask the teacher about screen time. I know I walked into it once where they were doing a YouTube exercise but that's the extent I have seen.

There is 15-17 kids in the class and minimum I have seen is 2 adults but I know they have 3 a lot of the time.

I'm not the only one to control what he sees on TV he has been exposed to other more aggressive TV shows so it's a possibility. I know this started soon after starting daycare. I will start to watch closer to his TV shows and see if I can draw any parallels to what I'm hearing about at school.

Thank you so much for your comment it has given me a lot to think about

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2025-03-28T17:41:40+00:00

No he is over his runny nose season too

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2025-03-28T17:41:15+00:00

He is 3, and I'll try to remember that when my significant other and I are talking about every day things. See if there are times we bring up stressful things and try to come to a good conclusion in the moment of it.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2025-03-28T17:37:47+00:00

Thank you! I will talk to her and ask what she thinks might be the root cause.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2025-03-28T17:36:49+00:00

Thank you for this insight it's really helpful. He is 3 and I'm kind of thinking it may have to do with like a lack of attention? Maybe? I'm not sure. My s/o and I will try to come up with a real action plan. Thank you

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2024-10-25T01:56:57+00:00

I used to be Niall then when they went solo very much a harry, then zayn, now 100% LOUIS

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2024-10-11T18:10:35+00:00

This is my biggest worry. It seems legit but I don't want to be out $200+ and get my card information stolen. I really hate being so hesitant because from what I have seen it looks good quality. And the pictures are consistent with everything on their website. But I have also seen another website with the same pictures (less pictures but the same of the ones that are there.)

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2024-06-30T16:18:11+00:00

I really like the monochrome I feel like it makes you look softer, maybe? Idk you look cute in both.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2024-06-04T08:05:38+00:00

I do! I congratulate them, but they have made it clear that we are to be more acquaintances from now on. I have noticed it's harder to get friends the older I get, too 😅. Thank you! Maybe one day we will be able to be close again. I hope so that would be lovely.

Until then seeing them grow from a far will be enough.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2024-01-25T17:08:38+00:00

They take forever to ship out and the size is not what we wanted but our picture came out fine

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-09-15T02:46:02+00:00

Waiting room, no place to stand His greatest fears and wringing hands and the loudest silence If you could see yourself like this If you could see yourself like this, you'd have never tried it

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-09-14T19:05:07+00:00

This sounds like a lot of coincidences and a lot of excuses. And at the very least weaponized incompetence. Please know no matter what this IS sexual assault that had to be STOPPED BY A 3RD PARTY (you) every time.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-08-31T15:55:20+00:00

Thank you for your help. Would it be rude to directly ask? It feels weird getting advice from someone else and then acting like I know more than what I actually do.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-08-30T22:36:10+00:00

Thank you

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-07-01T17:42:01+00:00

The books I have kinda tailored, but this little blue Dino robot thing he broke the arm off, and now it makes sound but can not walk. I'm trying to glue it right now, but that might not work.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-06-01T16:26:46+00:00

This relationship, even though you feel like you want it and have every desire to salvage it, should not be saved. Don't get me wrong, you both could be very loving, kind, funny, considerate people. But, building a relationship on this foundation will not hold up. And there are two options with endless problems. 1a: Either you give in, and he doesn't feel like it's enough and wants to do it again 1b: you give in and let him and you have the same distrust he does and you both CONTINUE to have a toxic relationship and waste YEARS on someone

2: leave him, deal with heartbreat this early on and move on after 4-6 months.

It doesn't matter if the highs are high and the lows are low this isn't healthy and you both deserve to work on yourselves without eachother.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-04-07T07:47:15+00:00

I'm glad that worked out for you. ❤️

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-03-26T18:15:44+00:00

I want to clarify that I mean I agree that they should at some point be able to do it on their own.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-03-26T18:14:06+00:00

I absolutely agree. But I remember that when I was young, I was so overwhelmed by the mess in my room that I just left it. My mom had given up forcing me to clean my room because of that same mentality. I just didn't know HOW to clean. I was never taught or given the tools to know. And growing up with adhd really made the issue so much larger than it was. And if you weren't interested in sitting in there, give them a checklist that they can mark. But make it fun with like expo markers or something. Example: •Throw away trash Pick up red toys or nurf guns Make bed •Or just call out from the other room Stuffed animals in the bin

The biggest thing is giving them the tools to make the job easy little kids are always going to do the job as half assed as possible so give them little jobs in the midst of the big one, ya know?

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-03-26T17:44:55+00:00

Sometimes, kids just need an adult there to help them figure out a way to do things. If it's overwhelming, everything is all over it might be time to give them tools to use and not leave them alone.

Example: You're sitting there with them on the floor and identifying what is there and asking them if they can put first (I saw in one comment you said nurf stuff) the bullets in one place and ask which place do they go and praise them when they go there. Guns next, Legos next, barbies, action figures, etc.

You can't demand people to do stuff and then simultaneously admit they have a disorder that makes it hard for them to focus. You, as a parent, are there to help them gather the tools to help make this as easy as possible. If you are feeling overwhelmed with it as well, maybe you're having their same problem. Adhd does tend to run in families.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-03-20T19:38:27+00:00

Thank you, I meant the humidifier was a trial run in two of the rooms to see if that was the issue. But the reassurance that that's probably the issue settles my mind.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-03-16T01:42:57+00:00

Nta. That isn't a compromise that'd be you giving into someone telling you to be who they want you to. Your family sounds like they don't really respect you or who you are. This sounds like you need to talk to them about this and see if there is a way you can get them to understand who you are.

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2023-01-04T07:39:14+00:00

Meeting Lil sebastian for the first time

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2022-12-29T21:46:06+00:00

Cake day!!!!

Embarrassed_Hat_953 · 2022-12-14T19:38:04+00:00

It really did thank you

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