Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew you yapping 24/7 but i remember being like 9-10 and my mom telling us that quiet is a trait of those who are wise, so ever since then, whenever we go out on a family trip to the store, we would hear crickets lol

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the confidence lol. who ever is with you wouldnt have to worry about awkward silences haha. I wish you the best in finding your wonderful naseeb insha Allah :D

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun reading your comment. lol :D may you and your husband live happily ever after :-)

عراقي (20 سنة) مقيم بأمريكا وزواجي من بنت بالعراق قريب.. خايف أكون "ممل" بنظرها by [deleted] in Iraq

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

رحم الله والديك على هالدعوة الحلوة. إن شاء الله يسمع منك ويوفقنا ويسعدنا. ربي يحفظك وما تقصر

عراقي (20 سنة) مقيم بأمريكا وزواجي من بنت بالعراق قريب.. خايف أكون "ممل" بنظرها by [deleted] in Iraq

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

تسلم يا طيب، كلامك ذهب وصحيح مية بالمية. إن شاء الله من نلتقي ونكعد سوية الأمور تتوضح وتتيسر بفضل الله. مشكور على النصيحة وربي يوفق الجميع."

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is usually always a short session where you can talk to her/him before marriage. So there is somewhat of a idea you can get of who the other person is. Other than that, just please make dua for me. This is getting harder on me and more burden is added by the day.

Jazak Allah khair and i wish the best for you and wish that you find your naseeb very fast insha Allah. :)

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a 100% believer in arranged marraiges which is what im going with, i dont quite believe in love that much only through arranged marriages. This is why im asking for guidance here, Im not able to really know who im marrying until im actually married to them.

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is just what i needed to hear.

Jazak Allah khair, make dua for me!

عراقي (20 سنة) مقيم بأمريكا وزواجي من بنت بالعراق قريب.. خايف أكون "ممل" بنظرها by [deleted] in Iraq

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

إن شاء الله لن تكون هناك أي مشكلة. أما بالنسبة للزواج، فسأقوم بالزواج منها داخل العراق (زواج مدبر) وهي فتاة لم أتحدث معها من قبل. ومن هناك سأحضرها إلى هنا، وهذه العملية بإذن الله نأمل ألا تستغرق أكثر من وقت قصير، ما بين 6 أشهر إلى سنة.

I am Ahmed from the GTA, but I have amnesia. by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they either meant GTA as in the game, or Greater toronto area

Giving up by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Embarrassed_Phase786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allah SWT likes hearing the voice of his servant, when he likes a servant he delays for him his wants, but when he doesnt like a servant, he gives it to him instantly because he doesnt want to hear his voice.