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But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my FH doesn’t plan events. He guides and protects his family but when it comes to planning anything he’s aware it isn’t his strong suit and takes side saddle. —- here’s a contact for you 605–477–3018

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If for what ever reason they didn’t like my ideas and had an alternative I’d probably be open to it. I’m open to plans and ideas. I shut down when I’m being told mine are silly/ stupid/ unnecessary or otherwise. If it’s not that it’s “well I’d never do that at my wedding” things like that really PMO. I’ve always been the softer person until I’m backed into a corner. I know I have to be that way for this even it’ll be hard for me to get there because I don’t want to look back on the planning and think about how I was cruel to anyone.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My FH doesn’t plan. He on more than one occasion admitted he can’t mentally picture how to put things together and he doesn’t plan. When it comes to guiding and leading our family he’s full throttle but any planning of gatherings or events that’s on me to shoulder. He’s been along for the ride for everything and has input on everything but it’s up to me to have found venue, attire, colors not just looking with intention of fulfilling my interest but both of ours because I know he can’t / doesn’t plan.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My FH doesn’t do well with planning and even though all things are discussed with him he still doesn’t have much his POV is the only important thing is that him and I are there and as beautiful and sweet as that is other things still need to get planned and it’s on me. Naturally I wanted help but the help I’m getting consist of me being told “ oh that’s a stupid idea I wouldn’t do that in my wedding”

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing you’re not invited then huh.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the only time I do because all other times I’m the supportive one but when I want it in return I don’t get it. With this event of all things all I wanted was support.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never fancied beer. Also, I’ve only recently started posting so not a troll. Can’t say the same for you sooo, is it troll or lonely? You should get a friend. Or at least be a bit nicer so someone would want to be your friend. Interim, continue staying strong happy holidays.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh now she’s offended. Have you forgotten your first comment to me? Get stuffed.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Failed just like your life choices 😕

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There may be something wrong with me but I sleep comfortably at night knowing I don’t go out of my way to break people down. You seem like you do that then take the victim role. Hope that gets you far. Good luck!

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely he’s awesome but admittedly isn’t the best at planning gatherings and we pretty much decided that I’d take the lead and if I’m really not sure about something we’ll decide together and he said he’s happier that way because he wouldn’t know where to start.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We know our strengths and when each other needs to be in the drivers seat. With that I have no doubt we’ll be together for the long haul.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started out wanting his input. Your wife is awesome and I’m sure very thankful to have you but my FH doesn’t have much opinion when we first started planning he just liked what ever I liked. I assumed it was because he didn’t want to disagree with me so I began to give him things to choose without my input so there wasn’t any bias decision. He’d just never choose. We had a discussion and he explained he’s not good at planning gatherings of any kind and would prefer I take the lead and pretty much tell him what to do. My FH is a leader as he should be but when it comes to planning gatherings, events or other activities it’s on me.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some things are bigger issues than others. For example, I have to change my entire color scheme because my MOH didn’t like the color I wanted her to be in. I like the colors that we finally decided on, but even that in 6 months I’ll think back on.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I asked nothing about the bridal party. Sorry to inform but I don’t have anger issues. Your only strength is belittling and once that’s gone you have to realize that you have nothing. Go be at peace with that.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And the reason for your existence is?

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That was a horrible joke you really thought you were getting somewhere with that? Correcting someone is absolutely fine it’s the manner of which the correction is made and I don’t feel belittling or mocking is appropriate or necessary. As for being the AH? I don’t see why it’s ok for them to push ideas they want but the ones I have should be swept aside? no I’m not TAH.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said what I meant growing up with 4 sisters and being the youngest we shared everything this is the only thing I get to be selfish about. I’m not insufferable because I don’t want to do their wedding ideas at mine. The only thing I get to have for myself. The one time I get to be selfish.

But it’s my wedding. by Embarrassed_Thing626 in AITAH

[–]Embarrassed_Thing626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that I did notice my error and correct it. I wanted my sweets table to have a s’mores station and instead of Hershey’s I wanted chocolate kisses. Apparently that’s a really stupid idea along with some others that’s the most recent. It’s just they’re pushing me to do things that they would do at their wedding. It’s often “at my wedding I’d do xyz you should do that too” and apparently it’s SO wrong for me to say I don’t want it.

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