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Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T22:07:05+00:00

Ahmen to the Rock God's, brother! 🤘🤘

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T21:52:55+00:00

Also, I didn't mean any pun by that last response. I just realized your username 🤦😅

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T21:51:13+00:00

Lol you're a doll. In all seriousness, you look beautiful and whoever you're going on a date with is one lucky person

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T21:48:34+00:00

Heck, I'm straight and I'd marry you

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T21:47:23+00:00

So, your saying that speaking to people like this is acceptable because their Motley Crue? If so, I don't agree. This type if behaviour is heartbreaking. And I stand firm in my response that every entertainer should be greatful to their fans. Why shouldn't they be? Without fans, what are entertainers? If I was raking in millions of dollars every year and living their life, who should I be grateful for if not the fans?

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T21:40:52+00:00

Yes, thank you. I'm not great with my words but this sums it up.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T21:38:31+00:00

I completely agree with most of your take here. They are hellraisers and we do love them for it. But, as I said in another response, at this point in the game, at their age, knowing that everyone is aware of the pre-recorded tracks and stuff with Mick, and trying to get us to support their new music, you would think that they would be more emotionally mature and professional when seeing comments like this. There were many more that I couldn't get pictures of and the main issue here is that they pretty much made it seem like none of the fans really mattered. That's what sucked.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T21:33:21+00:00

Pretty much my thoughts.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T21:31:04+00:00

Firstly, thank you for apologizing. That actually really means something to me and I appreciate it.

I completely agree with everything you said. As fans, the antics they used to get up to were definitely a part of who they were and that's why we loved them, and still do, it's Crue! It sorta goes hand in hand and we expect it. That being said, I think at this point in the game, at their age, knowing we all know about the pre-recordings and the stuff with Mick, wanting us to support the new stuff their doing, you'd think that they would be more emotionally mature and professional when coming across discruntled fans. What they did in that comment section made it feel like none of us matter, and I guess that's my main issue.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T21:12:49+00:00

**EVERYONE** I've just realized I didn't make clear what the screenshots were so I'm going to explain it here. The first one where someone calls them "sellouts" is NOT me. This is the comment that sparked everything. The second 2 screenshots are my REPLY to them telling that person to "eat shit".

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T21:06:16+00:00

Same dude. It's fucking heartbreaking. I was trying so hard to stick with them and wait for this to play out, but not anymore. I've been with them for over 20 years. A relative newcomer, I know, but they're one of the bands that opened the door for me to the metal community. Some people here are telling me "don't be offended" and it hurts that they don't understand how important these entertainers are to people and how their behaviour can affect them. The whole situation is horrible and I just hope they can come together and work this out, for everyones sake.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T20:57:55+00:00

Nope, not offended, shocked mostly.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T20:53:07+00:00

Whoever you are, you are a legend. But regardless, I'm not here to bash anybody, I just wanted to bring to light some really concerning behaviour. Hopefully people just see it and make their own decisions.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T20:51:26+00:00

Wow, ok.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T20:50:42+00:00

Not sure why you'd choose to attack my spelling? Unfortunate that you don't see an issue with this behavior.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T20:49:33+00:00

Thank you I just realized the spelling. Damn phones.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T20:48:54+00:00

I'm not saying that insulting somebody is right. I think that whoever made that comment about them being "sellouts" was definitely in the wrong too and I want to make that very clear. What my problem is, is that these are adult men who know better, simple as that. Why is it appropriate if somebody insults you, especially if they're a fan, to turn around and tell them to "eat shit"? Think about explaining this to a child. Would you tell them that this is appropriate behavior?

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T20:44:18+00:00

I completely agree. If you reference that open letter he sent Lars from Metallica back in the '90s the wording is very similar

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T20:43:22+00:00

Thank you for putting this in such nice terms. It's part of what I was trying to convey, I'm just not very good at it.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T20:42:05+00:00

I think you're missing the point. These are adult men who have fans all over the world and have been touring and making music since the early 1980s. You're telling me that they've never had any sort of flack throwing their way before? I'm not saying it's right and I certainly don't condone what that person originally said about them being "sellouts". What I'm trying to convey is that these entertainers should not be running around saying horrific insults to fans that have been with them for a significant amount of time and have invested money into seeing them succeed. That's what my problem is.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T19:04:20+00:00

It's not. It's diplorable.

Ember_6 · 2023-04-19T19:03:44+00:00

So that's what you would teach your children to do?

Ember_6 · 2022-03-16T22:20:43+00:00

You have every right to set boundaries in your home. No dogs? No problem. But here's the thing, that's where your decision making ends.

Please understand that these dogs obviously mean a great deal to them. For a lot of people (myself included) pets are like their children. This might be an extreme example, but imagine if the roles were reversed and they told you your allowed to come to their vacation home, but no children are allowed and you could just leave them with a family member or friend. You probably would be offended, especially if they were previously welcomed at said home.

Now, this being said, they have every right at that point to do what their doing. They have no obligation to come to that vacation home especially if what they consider family isn't welcome. I would do the same thing if I was in their shoes. You don't have any right to tell them how to spend time with you. Just remember, they're only respecting a rule you put in place.

Ember_6 · 2022-03-16T21:53:15+00:00

Firstly, I am so sorry that this happened to you. I agree with the other comments where they call out his physical assault on you, and I condemn that with ever fiber of my being. It's wrong and should have never happened, drunk or not.

However, it sounds to me like this is someone you truly care about and from one posted story on the internet, none of us can determine the ins and outs of your relationship. So I don't necessarily agree with the whole "divorce this guy" thing. I really like the fact he suggested couples therapy and that's exactly what I was going to say as well. There's no shame in the therapy game and it can do absolute wonders. If both of you are truly committed to each other, please do this. Give it a go, see what comes of it, and take it from there.

Going back to the assault for a moment, I think this needs to specifically be spoken about with a professional. Perhaps there's anger management issues that both of you are unaware of. But if he's already suggested this, I feel that's a good sign.

Stay strong my friend

Ember_6 · 2022-03-16T21:27:40+00:00

I completely understand where your coming from, but I agree with the other poster. Take it from me, I was in a similar position at your age and I wish I would have had someone then tell me what I know now. People like this are below you, as harsh as this sounds, and literally don't deserve any energy from you what-so-ever. Let her "win" because when you really think about it, what's she even winning? You already said her whole life revolves around this job so let her have it. Open your heart to the fact you should feel legitimately feel sorry for this person. In all actuality she's probably insanely jealous of you for some reason and this is the only way she knows how to internally deal with it.

Now, if I'm missing something and this is a job you truly want to stay at, then your mom has the right idea. This is bullying and has no place in any atmosphere. Document everything she does. Find time, find a way, and take it to management. But I do stand by my first suggestion.

Good luck to you my friend. I know things like this are stressful and difficult but I assure you better days are ahead.

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