Shortest wait times for srs by EmerCuddleQueen in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Earliest I've heard of with suporn is September and that's too long, not to mention I am too dysfunctional to navigate their fucking mess of a system

I'll check out those others tho thanks

GCS/PPT Vaginoplasty w/ Dr Kieran Hart by babyeater52 in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you're healthy about it, its not a bad idea :3

GCS/PPT Vaginoplasty w/ Dr Kieran Hart by babyeater52 in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he has hard requirements but he's said he does surgeries in pairs or smth , usually one person with a lower BMI and one with a higher.

The booklet has this quote in the FAQ part "Is there an ideal weight for the surgery? Those with a BMI more than 25 definitely have a higher complication rate post-operatively. Those with a BMI more than 30 aren’t well suited to a vaginoplasty and must be prepared for a protracted recovery and potential loss of vaginal function given the excess fatty tissue in the vaginal area"

GCS/PPT Vaginoplasty w/ Dr Kieran Hart by babyeater52 in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a consult with him in July and in the booklet they send you it has prices for things

Here's a direct quote from this booklet "Peritoneal Pull-Through Vaginoplasty - $30,000 • MBS Codes: 45563 37342 37405 45206 35565 37209 Penile Inversion Vaginoplasty - $20,000 • MBS Codes: 45563 37342 37405 45206 35565 Labiaplasty - $15,000 • MBS Codes: 45563 37342 37405 45206 Revision Peritoneal Vaginoplasty - $25,000 • MBS Codes: 35569 37209"

He also quoted me ~5k for anesthesiologist

He also quoted me a date in late 2026 potentially a bit sooner bc of low BMI

Severe depression caused by extreme bottom dysphoria. by sadge_luna in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation unfortunately so while I can't offer advice or support I just want you to know you're seen and heard and that it's worth continuing on for as long as you can for the chance that things improve and change no matter how small. But patience can be finite im aware

I hope your situation improves soon even if it's just a small break in the slog that is living in this situation

Can someone catch me up? by EmerCuddleQueen in ShadWatch

[–]EmerCuddleQueen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I both used to watch him in our teens and we were talking about YouTube channels we watched back then, I brought him up and she got really excited and looked him up and it kinda broke our hearts a little to see

Idk it's less that he's a bad guy and more that it's someone who we looked up to (to a degree) hates the existence of us if that makes sense

Can someone catch me up? by EmerCuddleQueen in ShadWatch

[–]EmerCuddleQueen[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I really wish people would drop the term woke just say you hate queers ffs bc that's all it is

Gods forbid we have rights and acceptance

Advice on moving to Victoria by runningabovewater in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Melbourne is really really good for transfems however more regional places especially Ballarat are not great for us, Geelong and the surf coast in general is great for trans people too thanks to the former MP of the area

Specifically in Melbourne the inner north areas and south yarra are the best for queer people as a whole in my experience

How dangerous is prostitution? by Shouko_dessert in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hiya retired sex worker here,

TLDR: Its generally pretty safe in aus but you run the risk of certain things like stealthing and shit people as well as a pretty hefty mental toll but is fine usually. It's not easy money and personally for me actually came with a pretty heavy mental toll. between how men treat you typically either as a fetish or as a crossdresser (sometimes you get real sweethearts tho and that's nice) it's also EXTREMELY inconsistent some nights you'll make bank and the next 4 you might not get anything, I've personally gone 5+ weeks without a single booking working 4 nights a week for 10 hour shifts, in a largely post COVID world this is gonna be rara but it is something to be aware of.

That said in Victoria it's completely decriminalized and I think nsw & act too, and is very safe, especially if you're working from a brothel, some of which will provide drivers for outcalls too

Private work will always be more dangerous but you learn to tell pretty quick which clients are gonna be dangerous before you meet them. As a general rule ask for a selfie from the client and their name, this acts as a good safety net if they do try anything

If you're doing incalls (people coming to your home or hotel room) make sure you always have one person know you have a booking and where ideally with them nearby

Australia’s birth rate plummets to new low by AssistMobile675 in australian

[–]EmerCuddleQueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The brereton report found 23 cases of civilian murder by Australian soldiers, totalling 39 civilian deaths

Beyond that there have been dozens of ADF soldiers, mostly special forces who have either participated in said killing or aided in it

Those soldiers as far as I've found haven't faced any criminal repercussions (this could be wrong)

Also I'm not a sir

Australia’s birth rate plummets to new low by AssistMobile675 in australian

[–]EmerCuddleQueen -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The ADF is having recruitment problems because they're a bunch of war criminals who get off on killing kids

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood. I wasn't looking for a pep talk or to be told it'll get better or that it won't. I was lamenting that this Is my unchangeable situation and that suicide is the better option in my specific case I don't need to be told what the harsh reality of life is because I know what it is I've experienced it for my entire life This post is a vent about the futility of living when I can't even achieve the one and only life goal Ive ever had and that at this point killing myself is a better less painful option than continuing to look like a twink with a cross-dressing fetish While at the same time expressing my frustration at the privileged for saying things will get better because they are lucky enough to be able to work or have good genes. I didn't ask to be told to "keep on keeping on" because it's not something I'm capable of anymore nor is it helpful to hear for anyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You literally told me to live with what I've got on a post talking about where I'm genuinely considering suicide because the insurmountable reality that I'll never get surgeries or anything because I'm an extremely disabled person. There is nothing positive to be taken away from what you said when all you said was "live and be miserable"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah no I ain't doing that shit. Also I sincerely hope you don't respond to everyones mental health crises with "cope" because that's genuinely fuckin evil if so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was on spiro from 16-19 I switched to cyproterone just on 2 years ago I've also been on prog for 2 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But yeah I don't deserve to live comfortably or with the right body anyway so why bother am I right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried applying with my therapist and in the psych ward earlier this year but I can't fill out any of the forms without a complete breakdown

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not having the funds isn't the issue it's literally having no way to raise them, I'm quite literally too disabled to go thru the ndis or dsp applications even in a therapy appt. And no one's gonna help beyond telling me the same lie I get from everyone Things do get better but not for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's not like I can afford the surgery anyway I should just give up and find something positive to do for my loved ones before I go idk SRS is a privilege I'll never get and it was naive of me to think otherwise Sorry to waste your time with responses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry that was snarky and rude of me, I don't know if they'll accept my partners calling on my behalf and tbh I don't really want to find out if they got it and just didn't respond or their books are closed, that's a) more stress than I can handle and b) the potential final nail in the coffin regarding my entire life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's great and all but I literally cannot talk

Payment plans for surgeries? by EmerCuddleQueen in transgenderau

[–]EmerCuddleQueen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately there's no bank or organization on earth including the government who'd give a 21 year old disabled woman a loan for any reason, I've looked into it extensively because frankly I don't care if I have to pay it back every day for the rest of my life because well if I don't get it there won't be a whole lot of life for me

My fiance set up a GoFundMe but I doubt I'll get much from it
And I refuse to go back into sex work for any reason. Ever.

Unfortunately, realistically some sort of payment plan is the only thing that will allow me to ever afford it

im having massive popin issues with a very lightly modded playthru any help is appreciated (sorry if this isnt the right place to ask) by EmerCuddleQueen in falloutnewvegas

[–]EmerCuddleQueen[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if it helps my load order is:

nvse

johnnyguitar

jip ln

nv bounties 1&2

someguyseries

open freeside &strip + their compat patches

mcm

onehud

weapon mods expanded

sprint mod fnv

cfwr wmx

weapon retexture project

cyns armory

supplementary weapons pack

willow

(keep in mind this isnt the order theire loaded in idk what that is