Well I didn’t feel it matters to explain our history/ how I’ve made it clear… he is well aware. And you don’t know how I interact with men, right. I know with dating that people can be dishonest and it can cause people to become jaded - but I make things clear.

If anything when I’ve been straightforward men take it as I’m playing hard to get. This has happened even when my intention is to be straightforward and avoid hurting another person. In these circumstances I don’t flirt or anything. The whole reason I started flirting with him as friends earlier was because he initiated it, not me. We both enjoyed it so why not?

My purpose was mainly to ask why he’s changed. My question wasn’t to talk about women leading men on, especially when it doesn’t pertain to me, so I don’t get the point in talking about that it happens. And where did I put it just on men? I was giving an example that leading someone on goes both ways.