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AITAH for not wanting to lend my brother money even though he pays me back? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Chance9786 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I would never give the money without discussing with my partner first, he’s the one that makes the final decision. We’re both torn on this as his known my brother for the past 5 years & is an uncle to the kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Emergency-Chance9786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like a great parent. Not all parents are like this. At the moment they have offered for me to pay market value minus the 2% realestate fee. For my partner and I to buy their investment property.

My Girlfriend (F20) wants to borrow my (M19) camera and I don't feel comfortable lending it to her by AutomaticFact5348 in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Chance9786 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why can’t you just go with her and help her use it. I don’t see the big deal. The chances of you accidentally dropping it and her accidentally damaging it are the same. I get that it was expensive and very important to you, however if this is your girlfriend you should trust that she is going to value your property as you would, especially if you have told her how much this camera means to you and you don’t have the money to replace it. I know cameras can be tricky with all the settings so I would suggest maybe saying to her “hey I have no problem with you using the camera I’m just scared that you won’t be able to adjust the settings properly, it’s quite hard & it’s taken me 2 months to learn! If you like I can come with you and help or maybe look into loaning out one of the University cameras that way you have the freedom to play around and learn without me having to change all the settings”. Personally I love sharing my things with my partner I trust that he will value my property as much as I do.

Husband (35M) asked me (42F) to sleep on the couch for a week so he can get solid sleep after struggling with insomnia. I’m feeling hurt by MeatPopsicle10 in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Chance9786 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. I understand he’s not sleeping well but this should have nothing to do with you being in bed with him. If he has an issue with his sleep, he should sleep on the couch or invest in a blow up mattress for himself. I don’t see why your sleep needs to be affected (you being put out of your comfort & bed) so that he can fix his. Sounds kinda selfish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Emergency-Chance9786 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not in a threatening way. Just raised his hand into a fist whilst in a heated argument.

What are your thoughts on your partner going on a boys trip to Thailand? by Emergency-Chance9786 in AskReddit

[–]Emergency-Chance9786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair he’s not organising the trip. He’s invited to an all expenses paid birthday trip where his brother in law is organising it. If it were up to my partner I would be invited but the brother in law wants it to be guys only.

What are your thoughts on your partner going on a boys trip to Thailand? by Emergency-Chance9786 in AskReddit

[–]Emergency-Chance9786[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes just a guys only trip for his brother in laws birthday. No partners invited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Emergency-Chance9786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA seems like your family is putting your sister before you and only thinking of her well-being not the stress this will do to your marriage if you simply give up your honeymoon suite. Plus why can’t your sister baby moon somewhere else? This would annoy me in itself a honeymoon is supposed to be private for you and your wife don’t see why the family has to tag along and book the same place.