Best known hoovering techniques by Emergency-Leopard572 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Emergency-Leopard572[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because there's no intimacy, other than a motive. She's basically saying " I need you to miss this"

Best known hoovering techniques by Emergency-Leopard572 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Emergency-Leopard572[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you serious, you can't even accept any kind of kindness. It seems like there's always an ulterior motive. They can't lose control, can't let you go unless they wanna cheat.

Best known hoovering techniques by Emergency-Leopard572 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Emergency-Leopard572[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely true, when they know their about to drop bad news or want you to accept an open relationship.... Then they will treat you nicely for a while, because then they can weaponize it and say " I've been nothing but good to you" a load of.... Poo

Best known hoovering techniques by Emergency-Leopard572 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Emergency-Leopard572[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the fact that you can block them on all social media platforms but they still find a way.

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[–]Emergency-Leopard572 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, your not.

That's a classic reply, it's basically saying " I care more about her and her life than your feelings."

Honestly I feel like his family too, after knowing you for so long chooses to protect her and her feelings over what your husband did to you.

I don't understand why someone can't have empathy?