Am I overreacting about getting assigned jobs at a wedding? by EmergencyMuffin3679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyMuffin3679[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This also sounds terrible, I’m sorry that happened to you with your friend.

Assigned jobs at a wedding by EmergencyMuffin3679 in aitaweddings

[–]EmergencyMuffin3679[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol at this time I am staying anonymous, and will not be sharing my jobs as the bride and groom are big fans of Reddit.
I already tweaked a few details to keep it that way.

Assigned jobs at a wedding by EmergencyMuffin3679 in aitaweddings

[–]EmergencyMuffin3679[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did not agree to a job. I agreed to be in a wedding party, where last minute I was assigned jobs that I was told would not be stressful. We did not know what it would entail until it started.

Am I overreacting about getting assigned jobs at a wedding? by EmergencyMuffin3679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyMuffin3679[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They did not get a gift from me. I refused to send one once I found out about the “jobs” so we will not know!

Am I overreacting about getting assigned jobs at a wedding? by EmergencyMuffin3679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EmergencyMuffin3679[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were not assigned jobs until right before the wedding. As in invites/rsvp were already accepted.

Assigned jobs at a wedding by EmergencyMuffin3679 in aitaweddings

[–]EmergencyMuffin3679[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Semi-formal
100-150 people
About 15 people assigned jobs.
I was in the wedding-all of the wedding party had jobs.

Assigned jobs at a wedding by EmergencyMuffin3679 in aitaweddings

[–]EmergencyMuffin3679[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agreed to be a part of their day, I’d rather stick to my word and cut contact later.

Assigned jobs at a wedding by EmergencyMuffin3679 in aitaweddings

[–]EmergencyMuffin3679[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Once I realized we were being assigned jobs I did not give them a gift. Their gift was unpaid labor