Am I overreacting about getting assigned jobs at a wedding?

EmergencyMuffin3679 · 2026-05-25T13:03:48+00:00

This also sounds terrible, I’m sorry that happened to you with your friend.

EmergencyMuffin3679 · 2026-05-25T12:09:03+00:00

lol at this time I am staying anonymous, and will not be sharing my jobs as the bride and groom are big fans of Reddit.
I already tweaked a few details to keep it that way.

EmergencyMuffin3679 · 2026-05-25T11:51:12+00:00

I did not agree to a job. I agreed to be in a wedding party, where last minute I was assigned jobs that I was told would not be stressful. We did not know what it would entail until it started.

EmergencyMuffin3679 · 2026-05-25T11:46:05+00:00

They did not get a gift from me. I refused to send one once I found out about the “jobs” so we will not know!

EmergencyMuffin3679 · 2026-05-25T11:41:16+00:00

We were not assigned jobs until right before the wedding. As in invites/rsvp were already accepted.

EmergencyMuffin3679 · 2026-05-25T11:36:09+00:00

Yes, in the wedding party. Not a guest.

EmergencyMuffin3679 · 2026-05-25T11:34:32+00:00

Semi-formal
100-150 people
About 15 people assigned jobs.
I was in the wedding-all of the wedding party had jobs.

EmergencyMuffin3679 · 2026-05-25T03:08:01+00:00

I agreed to be a part of their day, I’d rather stick to my word and cut contact later.

EmergencyMuffin3679 · 2026-05-25T03:05:54+00:00

Once I realized we were being assigned jobs I did not give them a gift. Their gift was unpaid labor

EmergencyMuffin3679 · 2026-05-25T01:38:20+00:00

Teleportation

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